Канал: Better Than Perfect

In order to be fully in their feminine, they need the safety from the masculine.

In order to be fully in their feminine, they need the safety from the masculine.

The emotional side of being feminine is what creates that deep love and intimacy in a relationship.

The emotional side of being feminine is what creates that deep love and intimacy in a relationship.

THIS is what a woman provides to a successful, masculine man - and it isn't what you think it is!

THIS is what a woman provides to a successful, masculine man - and it isn't what you think it is!

This is the reason why both men and women cannot see the value in marriage anymore.

This is the reason why both men and women cannot see the value in marriage anymore.

What Men Get Out Of Marriage [Ep 39]

What Men Get Out Of Marriage [Ep 39]

If he sets boundaries and you don't like them...

If he sets boundaries and you don't like them...

Don't necessarily listen to what men say they want...

Don't necessarily listen to what men say they want...

He doesn't like you!

He doesn't like you!

Men should NEVER ask for commitment.

Men should NEVER ask for commitment.

This is when women have POWER in dating...

This is when women have POWER in dating...

Why buy the cow if I can get the milk for free?

Why buy the cow if I can get the milk for free?

NEVER give it up on the first date!

NEVER give it up on the first date!

Why Buy The Cow When I Can Get The Milk For FREE? [Ep 38]

Why Buy The Cow When I Can Get The Milk For FREE? [Ep 38]

It is important for women to reflect on things they may be doing that are hurting the relationship.

It is important for women to reflect on things they may be doing that are hurting the relationship.

Men and women define a successful life differently, which can be why one is more likely to divorce.

Men and women define a successful life differently, which can be why one is more likely to divorce.

Women become guarded when things are held against them by the man she is with.

Women become guarded when things are held against them by the man she is with.

This is the kind of man that is MOST likely to CHEAT...

This is the kind of man that is MOST likely to CHEAT...

This is why women divorce men...

This is why women divorce men...

Men are being lied to on the internet

Men are being lied to on the internet

If a woman isn't having sex with her husband...

If a woman isn't having sex with her husband...

Why Do WOMEN Initiate 90% Of Divorces? [Ep 37]

Why Do WOMEN Initiate 90% Of Divorces? [Ep 37]

If you're the leader, you're responsible for creating the big boundaries in the relationship.

If you're the leader, you're responsible for creating the big boundaries in the relationship.

A boundary is not telling the other person what to do, it is what you're going to do.

A boundary is not telling the other person what to do, it is what you're going to do.

It's not controlling or insecure to set a boundary.

It's not controlling or insecure to set a boundary.

What person wouldn't want their partner to respect the relationship enough to protect it?

What person wouldn't want their partner to respect the relationship enough to protect it?

"Nice guy" can equal controlling!

"Nice guy" can equal controlling!

Controlling someone isn't always as blatant as it might seem 👀

Controlling someone isn't always as blatant as it might seem 👀

What do you think about this situation? 🤔

What do you think about this situation? 🤔

Is He Secretly Controlling or Confidently Dominant? No More Girls Trips Allowed! [Ep 36]

Is He Secretly Controlling or Confidently Dominant? No More Girls Trips Allowed! [Ep 36]

Tune out the negative and focus on the positive! 👍️

Tune out the negative and focus on the positive! 👍️

Both men and women need to practice more empathy towards each other.

Both men and women need to practice more empathy towards each other.

The same hate that fueled "anti-men" is now fueling "anti-women."

The same hate that fueled "anti-men" is now fueling "anti-women."

Generalizing a large group of people based on a small minority fuels the dislike towards one another

Generalizing a large group of people based on a small minority fuels the dislike towards one another

Voicing complaints in an aggressive way actually makes the person LESS likely to change their ways.

Voicing complaints in an aggressive way actually makes the person LESS likely to change their ways.

It's poor taste to make light of a serious situation "because he's hot."

It's poor taste to make light of a serious situation "because he's hot."

There are different ways to spot unhealed women and men.

There are different ways to spot unhealed women and men.

Why Do Men And Women HATE Each Other?

Why Do Men And Women HATE Each Other?

Learn to make a woman happy in the bedroom

Learn to make a woman happy in the bedroom

Women bring up the past, here's why...

Women bring up the past, here's why...

NEVER tell a woman to "calm down"

NEVER tell a woman to "calm down"

Being masculine IN a relationship is a lot different than what you might think.

Being masculine IN a relationship is a lot different than what you might think.

A man MUST become masculine in order to fix his relationship.

A man MUST become masculine in order to fix his relationship.

90% of problems in relationships come from this ONE reason...

90% of problems in relationships come from this ONE reason...

Here's a 5 step process for how men can FIX their relationships.

Here's a 5 step process for how men can FIX their relationships.

How a Man Can FIX His Relationship (5 Step Process) [Ep 34]

How a Man Can FIX His Relationship (5 Step Process) [Ep 34]

Better Than Perfect is live!

Better Than Perfect is live!

NEVER let a woman pay for something, as a man because you have PRIDE!

NEVER let a woman pay for something, as a man because you have PRIDE!

We are in the Maldives at Alila Maldives

We are in the Maldives at Alila Maldives

Here's the difference between confidence and arrogance...

Here's the difference between confidence and arrogance...

Women becoming feminine will not make you masculine as a man.

Women becoming feminine will not make you masculine as a man.

There is NO WAY, I'm going to let my wife HAVE TO work to support our family!

There is NO WAY, I'm going to let my wife HAVE TO work to support our family!

Leading is not being a dictator, it's serving through love and sacrifice.

Leading is not being a dictator, it's serving through love and sacrifice.

Don't focus on changing someone else, change yourself instead.

Don't focus on changing someone else, change yourself instead.

John has a higher expectation of men than women because men are supposed to be the leaders.

John has a higher expectation of men than women because men are supposed to be the leaders.

The BIGGEST Problem With Men Today (That makes them weak) [Ep 33]

The BIGGEST Problem With Men Today (That makes them weak) [Ep 33]

"Taken men" are more desirable to many women.

"Taken men" are more desirable to many women.

Bragging about your conquests does not impress women.

Bragging about your conquests does not impress women.

A woman can do all the things right and a man will cheat...

A woman can do all the things right and a man will cheat...

Tom Brady proves that you can have everything, but if you lack this, she'll leave you.

Tom Brady proves that you can have everything, but if you lack this, she'll leave you.

Healthy jealousy is a good thing for women to have.

Healthy jealousy is a good thing for women to have.

A man who values a woman will PROTECT the relationship

A man who values a woman will PROTECT the relationship

Women are attracted to a man other women are attracted to

Women are attracted to a man other women are attracted to

If She Isn’t Afraid You’ll Cheat, She Doesn’t Love You [Ep 32]

If She Isn’t Afraid You’ll Cheat, She Doesn’t Love You [Ep 32]

Women can easily begin to harbor resentment

Women can easily begin to harbor resentment

Refusing to submit to anyone is an immature quality.

Refusing to submit to anyone is an immature quality.

Women, you have to give your man the full responsibility to either sink or swim! 🏊️

Women, you have to give your man the full responsibility to either sink or swim! 🏊️

The Surrendered Wife offers women ways to help influence her man in a beneficial way.

The Surrendered Wife offers women ways to help influence her man in a beneficial way.

Nagging and constantly criticizing are ways to wear your partner down.

Nagging and constantly criticizing are ways to wear your partner down.

The Surrendered Wife was written by a feminist who came to understand the masculine/feminine dynamic

The Surrendered Wife was written by a feminist who came to understand the masculine/feminine dynamic

The Surrendered Wife is a great resource for women to understand a male/female relationship.

The Surrendered Wife is a great resource for women to understand a male/female relationship.

The Surrendered Wife [Ep 31]

The Surrendered Wife [Ep 31]

A relationship only continues to grow and become stronger when BOTH people have that mindset.

A relationship only continues to grow and become stronger when BOTH people have that mindset.

A mindset shift to commitment and appreciation could help fix your relationship.

A mindset shift to commitment and appreciation could help fix your relationship.

Commitment is a choice, and you should be honoring that choice you made in your partner.

Commitment is a choice, and you should be honoring that choice you made in your partner.

To have a happy, successful marriage, you must FULLY invest in your partner and the relationship.

To have a happy, successful marriage, you must FULLY invest in your partner and the relationship.

Resentment and bitterness are the decay that eats away at your relationship.

Resentment and bitterness are the decay that eats away at your relationship.

When you love your partner for who they are, you don't want to hurt them even if they hurt you.

When you love your partner for who they are, you don't want to hurt them even if they hurt you.

"I love my partner, but I don't like them..."

"I love my partner, but I don't like them..."

I Love You, But I Don't Like You... [Ep 30]

I Love You, But I Don't Like You... [Ep 30]

Try for 3 months to fix the relationship, putting your needs aside, before you consider separating.

Try for 3 months to fix the relationship, putting your needs aside, before you consider separating.

Physical intimacy is an important and required part of a relationship.

Physical intimacy is an important and required part of a relationship.

If a man's mother did everything for him, he is more likely to want a woman to take care of him too.

If a man's mother did everything for him, he is more likely to want a woman to take care of him too.

Women, saying mean and hurtful things when you are upset is never okay!

Women, saying mean and hurtful things when you are upset is never okay!

John explains unconditional respect and why your husband/partner deserves it.

John explains unconditional respect and why your husband/partner deserves it.

Understanding the Crazy Cycle can help save your relationship/marriage.

Understanding the Crazy Cycle can help save your relationship/marriage.

Women value unconditional love and men value unconditional respect.

Women value unconditional love and men value unconditional respect.

A Man Deserves UNCONDITIONAL Respect From His Wife [Ep 29]

A Man Deserves UNCONDITIONAL Respect From His Wife [Ep 29]

A successful relationship requires true intimacy and the mindset to want to improve and do better.

A successful relationship requires true intimacy and the mindset to want to improve and do better.

Women have to feel safe to be feminine, and that isn't possible when a man isn't masculine.

Women have to feel safe to be feminine, and that isn't possible when a man isn't masculine.

What makes a passport bro think a foreign woman wouldn't take half of his money in a divorce? 🤔

What makes a passport bro think a foreign woman wouldn't take half of his money in a divorce? 🤔

Passport bros have the delusion that all their problems will be solved if they marry a foreign woman

Passport bros have the delusion that all their problems will be solved if they marry a foreign woman

The narrative that women leave men just because they're bored is really men lacking accountability.

The narrative that women leave men just because they're bored is really men lacking accountability.

Valid concerns from both men and women are minimized when they are expressed as slander.

Valid concerns from both men and women are minimized when they are expressed as slander.

What even is a "passport bro"? 🤔 Find out in this week's episode, out now!

What even is a "passport bro"? 🤔 Find out in this week's episode, out now!

Western Women Are Too Woke For "Passport Bros" [Ep 28]

Western Women Are Too Woke For "Passport Bros" [Ep 28]

It is time for women to embrace the power of the feminine!

It is time for women to embrace the power of the feminine!

A woman who is hyper masculine might find herself attracting more feminine men.

A woman who is hyper masculine might find herself attracting more feminine men.

There should not be a double standard when it comes to men and women in the workplace.

There should not be a double standard when it comes to men and women in the workplace.

Women, you don't have to compete with men, so don't be afraid to embrace your feminine side.

Women, you don't have to compete with men, so don't be afraid to embrace your feminine side.

The type of challenge men are looking for when it comes to dating has nothing to do with business.

The type of challenge men are looking for when it comes to dating has nothing to do with business.

Giving yourself a self-proclaimed label is usually not attractive.

Giving yourself a self-proclaimed label is usually not attractive.

Do guys like "boss babes"? 💁‍♀️ What do you think? 🤔

Do guys like "boss babes"? 💁‍♀️ What do you think? 🤔

Men Do NOT Want "Boss Babes" [Ep 27]

Men Do NOT Want "Boss Babes" [Ep 27]

Do you believe being in the wrong relationship is better than being alone?

Do you believe being in the wrong relationship is better than being alone?

If your partner mistreated you, but said they wouldn't after you broke up, would you believe them?

If your partner mistreated you, but said they wouldn't after you broke up, would you believe them?

If you are getting back together with someone who had an addiction, how long would you wait? 🤔

If you are getting back together with someone who had an addiction, how long would you wait? 🤔

Don't have affairs! 🙅

Don't have affairs! 🙅

Divorce is one of the hardest things you can go through, choose your spouse wisely.

Divorce is one of the hardest things you can go through, choose your spouse wisely.

John and Nicole technically broke up twice.

John and Nicole technically broke up twice.

Should you take someone back?

Should you take someone back?

Should You EVER Take Someone Back? [Ep 26]

Should You EVER Take Someone Back? [Ep 26]

If you don't learn to love unconditionally, no one will ever be good enough for you.

If you don't learn to love unconditionally, no one will ever be good enough for you.

Men and women settle for different reasons. Who do you think settles more?

Men and women settle for different reasons. Who do you think settles more?

Men want and need love, even if they don't want to admit it.

Men want and need love, even if they don't want to admit it.

Don't allow fear to take over your life by facing those fears head on.

Don't allow fear to take over your life by facing those fears head on.

Yes doing OILYFANNIES is a form of prostitution.

Yes doing OILYFANNIES is a form of prostitution.

Sometimes the easy way is not the best way...

Sometimes the easy way is not the best way...

This episode starts off with an email from someone who wanted our advice. What do you think? 🤔

This episode starts off with an email from someone who wanted our advice. What do you think? 🤔

Who Settles More? Men Or Women? [Ep 25]

Who Settles More? Men Or Women? [Ep 25]

Both men and women have to continue dating their partner to keep the romance alive.

Both men and women have to continue dating their partner to keep the romance alive.

Women, a man wants you to show your TRUE desire for him!

Women, a man wants you to show your TRUE desire for him!

Should women initiate, even more often than men? Maybe...

Should women initiate, even more often than men? Maybe...

Do you think about what your man actually wants?

Do you think about what your man actually wants?

If you don't respect your husband, you don't respect yourself.

If you don't respect your husband, you don't respect yourself.

If you aren't having sex at least 2-3 times a week, your relationship is BROKEN!

If you aren't having sex at least 2-3 times a week, your relationship is BROKEN!

Do women know how to romance a guy?

Do women know how to romance a guy?

How Can WOMEN Be Romantic? (It's not what you think) [Ep 24]

How Can WOMEN Be Romantic? (It's not what you think) [Ep 24]

If you know that the man would say yes, then HE would have proposed if he knew you were the one!

If you know that the man would say yes, then HE would have proposed if he knew you were the one!

Why do men wait 5+ years to propose to the woman they are with?

Why do men wait 5+ years to propose to the woman they are with?

Should you accept a proposal after leaving because he waited too long? 🤔

Should you accept a proposal after leaving because he waited too long? 🤔

When do you think a woman should walk away from a man who isn't proposing? 💍 Let us know!

When do you think a woman should walk away from a man who isn't proposing? 💍 Let us know!

If he wanted to, he would - applies to proposing as well!

If he wanted to, he would - applies to proposing as well!

The way some men act, it makes sense that they might prefer to be the one getting proposed to. 🤦

The way some men act, it makes sense that they might prefer to be the one getting proposed to. 🤦

Is it ever okay for a woman to propose to her man? 🤔💍

Is it ever okay for a woman to propose to her man? 🤔💍

Should A Woman Ever Propose To A Man? [Ep 23]

Should A Woman Ever Propose To A Man? [Ep 23]

People will always make their unmet needs their priority.

People will always make their unmet needs their priority.

Ladies, you have to also bring the romance to the relationship as well! 😉

Ladies, you have to also bring the romance to the relationship as well! 😉

Biggest romance killer? 🔪❤️ Taking each other for granted.

Biggest romance killer? 🔪❤️ Taking each other for granted.

When a man pays attention to the little details, he is sure to have a woman falling for him!

When a man pays attention to the little details, he is sure to have a woman falling for him!

The ULTIMATE romantic thing a man can do for a woman is a thoughtful act or gesture.

The ULTIMATE romantic thing a man can do for a woman is a thoughtful act or gesture.

Romancing a woman will get you a lot further in the long run than tearing her down.

Romancing a woman will get you a lot further in the long run than tearing her down.

When men and women become afraid to show their love to one another, the romance starts to die.

When men and women become afraid to show their love to one another, the romance starts to die.

How To Romance A Woman [Ep 22]

How To Romance A Woman [Ep 22]

A 👏 CHILD 👏 IS 👏 NEVER 👏 RESPONSIBLE 👏 FOR 👏 THEIR 👏 PARENT 👏

A 👏 CHILD 👏 IS 👏 NEVER 👏 RESPONSIBLE 👏 FOR 👏 THEIR 👏 PARENT 👏

Parenting from a unified front will not only help your children but your marriage as well.

Parenting from a unified front will not only help your children but your marriage as well.

Love and consistency in parenting are ESSENTIAL.

Love and consistency in parenting are ESSENTIAL.

Children learn the most from their parent's actions, so be the role model you want for your kids.

Children learn the most from their parent's actions, so be the role model you want for your kids.

The marriage/relationship comes first, before the children, and this is why.

The marriage/relationship comes first, before the children, and this is why.

Sometimes men want to have children for the wrong reasons..

Sometimes men want to have children for the wrong reasons..

Whether your partner does or does not want to have children is a make or break for relationships.

Whether your partner does or does not want to have children is a make or break for relationships.

How Having Kids Changes Your Relationship [Ep 21]

How Having Kids Changes Your Relationship [Ep 21]

Setting Instagram to private once you're in a relationship keeps unnecessary people out of your life

Setting Instagram to private once you're in a relationship keeps unnecessary people out of your life

Filters have ruined our self image and confidence.

Filters have ruined our self image and confidence.

If you are constantly seeking validation, you end up doing things for other people rather than you.

If you are constantly seeking validation, you end up doing things for other people rather than you.

It's okay to be picky, but you have to be picky about the things that truly matter the most.

It's okay to be picky, but you have to be picky about the things that truly matter the most.

Simp culture and the overinflation of women's value...

Simp culture and the overinflation of women's value...

Social media has made it easier to meet people when dating, but it has also made them less satisfied

Social media has made it easier to meet people when dating, but it has also made them less satisfied

With nearly everyone chronically online, mental health & relationships are starting to suffer.

With nearly everyone chronically online, mental health & relationships are starting to suffer.

Will Social Media Be The Downfall Of Relationships? [Ep 20]

Will Social Media Be The Downfall Of Relationships? [Ep 20]

The first trip together means the 💩 test and seeing how they can handle unplanned situations.

The first trip together means the 💩 test and seeing how they can handle unplanned situations.

When you move in together, you should start operating from a place of "oneness."

When you move in together, you should start operating from a place of "oneness."

When you move in with your partner, you adopt new routines & take someone else into consideration.

When you move in with your partner, you adopt new routines & take someone else into consideration.

If you are planning to get married, YOU MUST LIVE TOGETHER FIRST!

If you are planning to get married, YOU MUST LIVE TOGETHER FIRST!

Does your partner act differently in front of their friends or family?

Does your partner act differently in front of their friends or family?

Here are some highlights from our first anniversary trip on the island of Kauai ❤️

Here are some highlights from our first anniversary trip on the island of Kauai ❤️

This week's episode, we talk about why traveling & moving in together is NECESSARY in relationships.

This week's episode, we talk about why traveling & moving in together is NECESSARY in relationships.

This Could Destroy Your Relationship [Ep 19]

This Could Destroy Your Relationship [Ep 19]

It's harder to be soft and feminine as a woman when having casual hookups.

It's harder to be soft and feminine as a woman when having casual hookups.

Sex has a different meaning to women when they are single vs. in a relationship.

Sex has a different meaning to women when they are single vs. in a relationship.

Ladies, you should NEVER use intimacy (or lack of) as a threat or punishment! 🙅

Ladies, you should NEVER use intimacy (or lack of) as a threat or punishment! 🙅

Men, take some time going from the Northern colonies to the Southern colonies 😉

Men, take some time going from the Northern colonies to the Southern colonies 😉

Intimacy is a mental process for women that takes some time to build up!

Intimacy is a mental process for women that takes some time to build up!

Men use intimacy to be closer to their partner, but women might find they use it for that reason too

Men use intimacy to be closer to their partner, but women might find they use it for that reason too

Let's talk about S E X...

Let's talk about S E X...

SEX [Ep 18]

SEX [Ep 18]

Don't leave a woman who is treating you right for "the grass is greener on the other side" syndrome.

Don't leave a woman who is treating you right for "the grass is greener on the other side" syndrome.

Men, is "getting the hottest girl" about who she is as a person or how being with her makes you look

Men, is "getting the hottest girl" about who she is as a person or how being with her makes you look

True intimacy & deep connection makes you attracted to them for more than their physical appearance.

True intimacy & deep connection makes you attracted to them for more than their physical appearance.

Men always looking for the next hottest thing creates an insecurity in a lot of modern women.

Men always looking for the next hottest thing creates an insecurity in a lot of modern women.

Resensitizing yourself to the woman you're with is to simply not look at sexualized things

Resensitizing yourself to the woman you're with is to simply not look at sexualized things

Men are bombarded today with sexualized things that cause him to never feel satisfied with one woman

Men are bombarded today with sexualized things that cause him to never feel satisfied with one woman

Men are wired to "spread their seed," which can cause fear for women in relationships.

Men are wired to "spread their seed," which can cause fear for women in relationships.

Can You REALLY Be Satisfied With Just ONE Person Forever? [Ep 17]

Can You REALLY Be Satisfied With Just ONE Person Forever? [Ep 17]

A relationship is between two people, don't tell your family & friends everything that is going on.

A relationship is between two people, don't tell your family & friends everything that is going on.

Don't add to the hostility, do the right thing and be the bigger person.

Don't add to the hostility, do the right thing and be the bigger person.

A man should earn his own way to provide for his wife and family.

A man should earn his own way to provide for his wife and family.

Were you nervous about meeting your significant other's family?

Were you nervous about meeting your significant other's family?

Always back your spouse.

Always back your spouse.

Don't introduce your significant other too early in the relationship.

Don't introduce your significant other too early in the relationship.

A man must put his wife first, and back her up—even if she is wrong.

A man must put his wife first, and back her up—even if she is wrong.

Pick One: Happy Mom OR Happy Wife [Ep 16]

Pick One: Happy Mom OR Happy Wife [Ep 16]

If you need a prenup, just don't get married.

If you need a prenup, just don't get married.

Who is a failed marriage more costly for a man or a woman? The answer may surprise you.

Who is a failed marriage more costly for a man or a woman? The answer may surprise you.

Should a married woman "stash some cash" just in case?

Should a married woman "stash some cash" just in case?

"If I am going to bet with my life, I am going to bet with all my money too" 👏👏👏

"If I am going to bet with my life, I am going to bet with all my money too" 👏👏👏

Vows are a part of marriage for a reason. It is a serious commitment.

Vows are a part of marriage for a reason. It is a serious commitment.

When we are married and still so focused on the self, it creates distance rather than closeness.

When we are married and still so focused on the self, it creates distance rather than closeness.

It seems the true meaning of becoming "one" in marriage has been lost.

It seems the true meaning of becoming "one" in marriage has been lost.

Marriage Is About TWO Becoming ONE [Ep 15]

Marriage Is About TWO Becoming ONE [Ep 15]

Masculinity is made, femininity is protected.

Masculinity is made, femininity is protected.