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Relationship repair is a team sport

Relationship repair is a team sport

The dance of disconnection in relationships

The dance of disconnection in relationships

Depriving your partner of desire never works in creating happiness in your relationship

Depriving your partner of desire never works in creating happiness in your relationship

Desire is the glue that holds a relationship together

Desire is the glue that holds a relationship together

Emotional regulation in men, is sexy as hell for women

Emotional regulation in men, is sexy as hell for women

Women prefer to wanted but not needed

Women prefer to wanted but not needed

Make time in your life for your relationship

Make time in your life for your relationship

the importance of maintaining a sense of self in your relationship, it's critical not optional

the importance of maintaining a sense of self in your relationship, it's critical not optional

Money doesn't buy you happiness,

Money doesn't buy you happiness,

If you're on a break, you're on a break from your relationship

If you're on a break, you're on a break from your relationship

Would you go to a hairdresser to fix your car?

Would you go to a hairdresser to fix your car?

Changes in the creation agreement are normal in relationships.

Changes in the creation agreement are normal in relationships.

If you want to improve your relationship, let your partner know you desire them

If you want to improve your relationship, let your partner know you desire them

The curse of unlimited options in dating and relationships

The curse of unlimited options in dating and relationships

Take a deep breath before losing your sh*t in your relationship.

Take a deep breath before losing your sh*t in your relationship.

Metaprograms and their importance in relationships

Metaprograms and their importance in relationships

Recieving is just as important as giving in relationships

Recieving is just as important as giving in relationships

Precision in your language is important in communication in relationships

Precision in your language is important in communication in relationships

Comfort is the enemy of happiness in a relationship crisis.

Comfort is the enemy of happiness in a relationship crisis.

You can't pour from an empty cup, self care is relationship care

You can't pour from an empty cup, self care is relationship care

Change your habits and your relationship changes.

Change your habits and your relationship changes.

Before you try poly, try bringing variety to your relationship

Before you try poly, try bringing variety to your relationship

start by having fun to improve your relationship

start by having fun to improve your relationship

The ever changing sense of self and it's importance in relationship

The ever changing sense of self and it's importance in relationship

what the seeker seeks, the finder finds

what the seeker seeks, the finder finds

People pleasing kills relationships

People pleasing kills relationships

Relationships are a team sport

Relationships are a team sport

The importance of frame control in communication within relationships

The importance of frame control in communication within relationships

Chunk up to intention to resolve conflict in your relationship

Chunk up to intention to resolve conflict in your relationship

Work twice as hard on your contribution to the relationship.

Work twice as hard on your contribution to the relationship.

Why humans want relationships.

Why humans want relationships.

People keep intimacy in their relationship to tolerable levels.

People keep intimacy in their relationship to tolerable levels.

The growth minded relationship

The growth minded relationship

Relationships progress from desire maximization to friction minimization

Relationships progress from desire maximization to friction minimization

Desireability is the key to relationship security

Desireability is the key to relationship security

Clearing out resentment is great for your relationship.

Clearing out resentment is great for your relationship.

Chunk up to intention to resolve conflict in your relationship.

Chunk up to intention to resolve conflict in your relationship.

How important is sex in a relationship.

How important is sex in a relationship.

Perpetual punishment of your partner, won't make you both happy

Perpetual punishment of your partner, won't make you both happy

Pain avoidance doesn't work in relationships.

Pain avoidance doesn't work in relationships.

Getting into a relationship, immediately after getting out of one is normally a mistake.

Getting into a relationship, immediately after getting out of one is normally a mistake.

does a goldfish know it's swimming in water

does a goldfish know it's swimming in water

What to do if you are in a relationship crisis.

What to do if you are in a relationship crisis.

Most relationships deteriorate through neglect and not malice

Most relationships deteriorate through neglect and not malice

Project guys, how women often date the potential of a man for a relationship.

Project guys, how women often date the potential of a man for a relationship.

What to do if your man isn't stepping up in your relationship

What to do if your man isn't stepping up in your relationship

Emotional responsiveness vs emotional withdrawal in relationships

Emotional responsiveness vs emotional withdrawal in relationships

Mammalian instincts that show up in long term relationships

Mammalian instincts that show up in long term relationships

If you feel like your relationship is on it's last legs.

If you feel like your relationship is on it's last legs.

Most people won't sign up for slavery in a relationship.

Most people won't sign up for slavery in a relationship.

Small changes compound over time in relationships.

Small changes compound over time in relationships.

perfection is the enemy of the good in relationship

perfection is the enemy of the good in relationship

Everybody has a limit in relationships

Everybody has a limit in relationships

Taking responsibility in your relationship alleviates suffering

Taking responsibility in your relationship alleviates suffering

both people can be right and wrong at the same time in relationships

both people can be right and wrong at the same time in relationships

You can't understand irrational behavior rationally

You can't understand irrational behavior rationally

The negative effects of porn addiction on a relationship

The negative effects of porn addiction on a relationship

Lessons learnt in childhood can prevent happiness in relationships

Lessons learnt in childhood can prevent happiness in relationships

expanding sexual variety requires expanding your sense of identity in relationships

expanding sexual variety requires expanding your sense of identity in relationships

If your relationship is a challenge consider T H E S E things

If your relationship is a challenge consider T H E S E things

The single most important things men and women look for from each other in relationships.

The single most important things men and women look for from each other in relationships.

Be the relationship partner you want to be with.

Be the relationship partner you want to be with.

things to consider when getting back together after separation and restarting a relationship

things to consider when getting back together after separation and restarting a relationship

The michelangelo effect in relationships

The michelangelo effect in relationships

the 5 things you should be doing in the bedroom starting with S

the 5 things you should be doing in the bedroom starting with S

the habits you get into in your sexual relationship determines your desire for it

the habits you get into in your sexual relationship determines your desire for it

5 things to consider to improve your sexual relationship

5 things to consider to improve your sexual relationship

6 ways society gets in the way of great relationships

6 ways society gets in the way of great relationships

The 6 things men look for in their partner in a long term relationship.

The 6 things men look for in their partner in a long term relationship.

The 6 traits women look for in their men in a long term relationship.

The 6 traits women look for in their men in a long term relationship.

The creation agreement and it's importance in relationships.

The creation agreement and it's importance in relationships.

Unfairness in a relationship and three ways to reduce it

Unfairness in a relationship and three ways to reduce it

Reward growth in relationships, don't punish it.

Reward growth in relationships, don't punish it.

Alignment of integrity is important in relationships

Alignment of integrity is important in relationships

Habituation and the habits of disconnection in relationships

Habituation and the habits of disconnection in relationships

You might not have a relationship problem, you might have a you problem

You might not have a relationship problem, you might have a you problem

Relationships are non linear systems

Relationships are non linear systems

Do the work not just for your relationship but also for yourself

Do the work not just for your relationship but also for yourself

You need to be able to take your partners advice in a relationship.

You need to be able to take your partners advice in a relationship.

Your partner needs a separate life from your relationship

Your partner needs a separate life from your relationship

Intimacy requires bravery in relationships

Intimacy requires bravery in relationships

Do the work for yourself in your relationship

Do the work for yourself in your relationship

you can't coerce your way to someone wanting your in your relationship

you can't coerce your way to someone wanting your in your relationship

The skills necessary for relationship success aren't innate.

The skills necessary for relationship success aren't innate.

Fighting for what isn't real in relationships.

Fighting for what isn't real in relationships.

Choices and consequences in your relationship

Choices and consequences in your relationship

The danger of regulating the people around you in relationships

The danger of regulating the people around you in relationships

what happens when the woman is the high desire for sex in a relationship

what happens when the woman is the high desire for sex in a relationship

you're relating to them as they are now, relationship tips

you're relating to them as they are now, relationship tips

Some people can't or won't help themselves in relationships.

Some people can't or won't help themselves in relationships.

the 6 different ways of experiencing intimacy in a relationship

the 6 different ways of experiencing intimacy in a relationship

The 6 limited choices when needs aren't being met in your relationship.

The 6 limited choices when needs aren't being met in your relationship.

when is it time to end a relationship?

when is it time to end a relationship?

what you fight about vs what you fight for in your relationship

what you fight about vs what you fight for in your relationship

Are you your partner peace in your relationship?

Are you your partner peace in your relationship?

If you would fix your engine before it blows up, who not your relationship?

If you would fix your engine before it blows up, who not your relationship?

The negative effects of social media on relationships.

The negative effects of social media on relationships.

survival and relationships

survival and relationships

how to make 2024 worse than 2023 Parody Video

how to make 2024 worse than 2023 Parody Video

How to perfect disappointment in your relationship partner Parody Video

How to perfect disappointment in your relationship partner Parody Video

5 myths about sex in long term relationships

5 myths about sex in long term relationships

Have you lost yourself in your relationship

Have you lost yourself in your relationship

How hypnosis works

How hypnosis works

The Blue hole in Vanuatu

The Blue hole in Vanuatu

Go Pro footage taken from the point at Sakao Island

Go Pro footage taken from the point at Sakao Island

Drone footage from Sakao Island

Drone footage from Sakao Island

Sakao Island Drone footage

Sakao Island Drone footage

Hog Harbour Video

Hog Harbour Video

Vanuatu blue hole swimming

Vanuatu blue hole swimming

Seek discomfort in your relationship, change never happens in the comfort zone

Seek discomfort in your relationship, change never happens in the comfort zone

Lessons from 900 couples counselling sessions in 12 months

Lessons from 900 couples counselling sessions in 12 months

the habits of disconnection vs the habits of connection in relationships

the habits of disconnection vs the habits of connection in relationships

the biggest mistake you can make in your relationship

the biggest mistake you can make in your relationship

the courage of love in relationships

the courage of love in relationships

If you argue for your limitations in your relationships you get to keep them

If you argue for your limitations in your relationships you get to keep them

holding the tension between the present and the future in relationships

holding the tension between the present and the future in relationships

emotional bandwith and relationships

emotional bandwith and relationships

Are you in control of your coping mechanisms in your relationship

Are you in control of your coping mechanisms in your relationship

The drager and the dragee in relationship counselling

The drager and the dragee in relationship counselling

What young parents are told and how that affects their relationship?

What young parents are told and how that affects their relationship?

how to get security in your relationship

how to get security in your relationship

how to break up well, ending your relationship well

how to break up well, ending your relationship well

shiny palace syndrome and how it gets in the way of relationship happiness

shiny palace syndrome and how it gets in the way of relationship happiness

The drager and the dragee when coming to relationship counselling

The drager and the dragee when coming to relationship counselling

Values and beliefs alignment is important in relationships

Values and beliefs alignment is important in relationships

Sexual Polarity in relationships

Sexual Polarity in relationships

Neuroplasticity and relationships

Neuroplasticity and relationships

Relationship skills matter in relationships

Relationship skills matter in relationships

grow up time in relationships

grow up time in relationships

Relationships are like a dance, it takes two to tango

Relationships are like a dance, it takes two to tango

Relationships are like a well

Relationships are like a well

if your separated and are thinking about getting your relationship back together

if your separated and are thinking about getting your relationship back together

If you stress your relationship long enough it will break

If you stress your relationship long enough it will break

Deprivation and endurance in relationships

Deprivation and endurance in relationships

Changes in meaning produce changes in a relationship

Changes in meaning produce changes in a relationship

If you were in a relationship with yourself, how long would you stay?

If you were in a relationship with yourself, how long would you stay?

Survival Training and relationships

Survival Training and relationships

Is monogamy Natural in relationships

Is monogamy Natural in relationships

the fundamental attribution error in relationships

the fundamental attribution error in relationships

Avoidance isn't an effective relationship improvement strategy

Avoidance isn't an effective relationship improvement strategy

Indifference, the great killer of relationships

Indifference, the great killer of relationships

Misery requires consensus in a relationship

Misery requires consensus in a relationship

the two biggest mistakes made in relationships for men and women

the two biggest mistakes made in relationships for men and women

would you rather be happy or right in your relationship

would you rather be happy or right in your relationship

who wants to want in a relationship

who wants to want in a relationship

negativity bias and how it shows up in relationships

negativity bias and how it shows up in relationships

the problems with open marriages or open relationships

the problems with open marriages or open relationships

I love you but I'm not in love with you The relationship talk

I love you but I'm not in love with you The relationship talk

what time tense is your relationship occuring in

what time tense is your relationship occuring in

how to die alone, not in a relationship. PARODY VIDEO

how to die alone, not in a relationship. PARODY VIDEO

how to destroy your relationship in 7 easy steps, PARODY VIDEO

how to destroy your relationship in 7 easy steps, PARODY VIDEO

5 signs you are ready for a new relationship

5 signs you are ready for a new relationship

pressure points in relationships

pressure points in relationships

The negative changes in a relationship that happen when a baby shows up

The negative changes in a relationship that happen when a baby shows up

On the importance of emotional self regulation in relationships

On the importance of emotional self regulation in relationships

How to have a great co parenting relationship

How to have a great co parenting relationship

communication is no virtue if you can't stand the message in relationships

communication is no virtue if you can't stand the message in relationships

the three different approaches to dating people take

the three different approaches to dating people take

be careful what you say to your relationship partner, they might be listening

be careful what you say to your relationship partner, they might be listening

The two questions you need ask yourself to improve your relationship

The two questions you need ask yourself to improve your relationship

the iron law is growth in a relationship crisis

the iron law is growth in a relationship crisis

stop doing these three things and improve your relationship

stop doing these three things and improve your relationship

Identity and it's importance in relationships

Identity and it's importance in relationships

The four points of balance. Four critical skills for relationship success

The four points of balance. Four critical skills for relationship success

tolerance of difference, a key to relationship happiness

tolerance of difference, a key to relationship happiness

how are you approaching your relationship give or take

how are you approaching your relationship give or take

the top 5 reasons why couples leave relationships

the top 5 reasons why couples leave relationships

the 5 characteristics of Narcissists

the 5 characteristics of Narcissists

the 5 mistakes people make in dating that can affect relationship success

the 5 mistakes people make in dating that can affect relationship success

sometimes love isn't enough in relationships

sometimes love isn't enough in relationships

why people cheat? infidelity explained

why people cheat? infidelity explained

what it's like being a couples counsellor

what it's like being a couples counsellor

what happens to a person during separation and divorce

what happens to a person during separation and divorce

the importance of relationship skills

the importance of relationship skills

The goldilocks zone of relationships

The goldilocks zone of relationships

the low desire partner has control over the relationship

the low desire partner has control over the relationship

good relationships live in the middle ground

good relationships live in the middle ground

how long does it take to recover a relationship from infidelity

how long does it take to recover a relationship from infidelity

the importance of fairness in your relationship

the importance of fairness in your relationship

understanding conflict in relationships

understanding conflict in relationships

Rapid Couples Counselling Introduction video

Rapid Couples Counselling Introduction video

The fastest way to improve your relationship

The fastest way to improve your relationship

How monogamy works in a relationship

How monogamy works in a relationship

Dog Training Principles applied to human relationships

Dog Training Principles applied to human relationships

The 6 steps practically every relationship goes through

The 6 steps practically every relationship goes through

The Rapid Couples Counselling Difference

The Rapid Couples Counselling Difference

You are the guardian of your relationship

You are the guardian of your relationship

The 3 areas of your relationship that must work

The 3 areas of your relationship that must work

the top 6 reasons why couples stop having sex

the top 6 reasons why couples stop having sex

Key principles of relationships

Key principles of relationships

The Rapid Couples Counselling difference

The Rapid Couples Counselling difference

Picking a good relationship partner

Picking a good relationship partner

5 signs of a great relationship

5 signs of a great relationship

5 signs you need couples therapy

5 signs you need couples therapy

Should I stay or should I go

Should I stay or should I go

Understanding Sexual desire in relationships

Understanding Sexual desire in relationships

intro to Rapid Couples Counselling

intro to Rapid Couples Counselling

the 5 common behaviors that degrade relationships

the 5 common behaviors that degrade relationships

How hypnosis works

How hypnosis works

how desire works in a relationship

how desire works in a relationship