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Complex Trauma Leads to a Negative Self-Identity #theovon #complextrauma

Complex Trauma Leads to a Negative Self-Identity #theovon #complextrauma

Addictions Trick us Into Feeling Connected

Addictions Trick us Into Feeling Connected

Understanding Trauma - Part 24 - Subtle Trauma

Understanding Trauma - Part 24 - Subtle Trauma

Codependent Relationships Form to Combat Shame #codependency #shame

Codependent Relationships Form to Combat Shame #codependency #shame

How to Start Healing from Emotional Dysregulation

How to Start Healing from Emotional Dysregulation

Escapism is a Coping Mechanism for Pain

Escapism is a Coping Mechanism for Pain

63 Fears that Contribute to Anxiety #complextrauma

63 Fears that Contribute to Anxiety #complextrauma

Children Lie to Survive When Growing up in Complex Trauma

Children Lie to Survive When Growing up in Complex Trauma

An Unstable Childhood Can Cause Emotional Dysregulation #complextrauma

An Unstable Childhood Can Cause Emotional Dysregulation #complextrauma

Practical Tools To Meet Your 12 Basic Needs

Practical Tools To Meet Your 12 Basic Needs

Time to Grow up and Build a Healthy Relationship

Time to Grow up and Build a Healthy Relationship

4 Key Characteristics of Healthy Organizations

4 Key Characteristics of Healthy Organizations

Understanding Shame Vs. Guilt | Clip from This Past Weekend w/ Host Theo Von

Understanding Shame Vs. Guilt | Clip from This Past Weekend w/ Host Theo Von

Healthy Relationships Require More Than Just Love

Healthy Relationships Require More Than Just Love

Getting Into a Relationship for the Wrong Reasons #codependency #complextrauma

Getting Into a Relationship for the Wrong Reasons #codependency #complextrauma

People-Pleasing: Setting Healthy Boundaries Will Prevent Damaging Your Relationships #complextrauma

People-Pleasing: Setting Healthy Boundaries Will Prevent Damaging Your Relationships #complextrauma

Narcissism and Leadership - Part 2

Narcissism and Leadership - Part 2

Why We Try To Date Someone Like Our Mom or Dad #complextrauma #codependency

Why We Try To Date Someone Like Our Mom or Dad #complextrauma #codependency

How the Pattern of Narcissism is Misunderstood

How the Pattern of Narcissism is Misunderstood

The 18 Characteristics of Narcissists

The 18 Characteristics of Narcissists

A Partner in a Relationship Does Not Have to Clean Up After You #complextrauma

A Partner in a Relationship Does Not Have to Clean Up After You #complextrauma

Who Do You Listen To - Your Parents, or Your Partner? #complextrauma

Who Do You Listen To - Your Parents, or Your Partner? #complextrauma

Learning to Meet Your Own Needs is Powerful in Healing from C-PTSD #cptsd #codependency #healing

Learning to Meet Your Own Needs is Powerful in Healing from C-PTSD #cptsd #codependency #healing

Narcissism and Leadership - Part 1

Narcissism and Leadership - Part 1

A Healthy Relationship Includes Two Independent People Living and Leading as a Team

A Healthy Relationship Includes Two Independent People Living and Leading as a Team

How Shame Alters How We Look at Ourselves

How Shame Alters How We Look at Ourselves

What Happens When Two Shame-Based People Start a Relationship

What Happens When Two Shame-Based People Start a Relationship

Insecurities Come From Fear - Meaning You Feel Anxious and On Edge

Insecurities Come From Fear - Meaning You Feel Anxious and On Edge

Unhealed Insecurities Will Bring Trust Issues Into Your Relationship

Unhealed Insecurities Will Bring Trust Issues Into Your Relationship

Trying to Control your Partner Because You Have Trust Issues is Not Okay

Trying to Control your Partner Because You Have Trust Issues is Not Okay

Generational Trauma - Case Study

Generational Trauma - Case Study

Playing Games to Test Your Partner's Affection Proves Your Own Insecurities

Playing Games to Test Your Partner's Affection Proves Your Own Insecurities

What to do Before Getting Into a Relationship With Someone

What to do Before Getting Into a Relationship With Someone

Relationships - Decisions Based on Real Life, Not Emotions

Relationships - Decisions Based on Real Life, Not Emotions

Understanding Trauma - Part 22 - Generational Trauma

Understanding Trauma - Part 22 - Generational Trauma

Shame Distorts Good Qualities

Shame Distorts Good Qualities

Shame As A Prison

Shame As A Prison

Shame Culture

Shame Culture

Sub-Conscious Brain - Part 5 - Bias

Sub-Conscious Brain - Part 5 - Bias

Giving the Silent Treatment is Emotional Manipulation

Giving the Silent Treatment is Emotional Manipulation

What Needs Do You Actually Need Your Partner to Meet?

What Needs Do You Actually Need Your Partner to Meet?

When Your Reality is Based on How You Feel

When Your Reality is Based on How You Feel

Understanding Trauma - Part 21 - Parable of the Beginning of Trauma

Understanding Trauma - Part 21 - Parable of the Beginning of Trauma

The Cure for Codependency

The Cure for Codependency

Complex Trauma and Views on Independence Vs Intimacy

Complex Trauma and Views on Independence Vs Intimacy

Complex Trauma Can Cause Attachment Issues, Fuelled by Fear

Complex Trauma Can Cause Attachment Issues, Fuelled by Fear

How Anxious Attachment Shows Up in Relationships

How Anxious Attachment Shows Up in Relationships

Merle's Journey Through Complex Trauma

Merle's Journey Through Complex Trauma

Complex Trauma - What is a Trigger?

Complex Trauma - What is a Trigger?

Spoiled Children or Having Inconsistent Boundaries Feeds Narcissism

Spoiled Children or Having Inconsistent Boundaries Feeds Narcissism

Codependency With Our Kids

Codependency With Our Kids

Sub-Conscious Brain - Part 4 - Brain Templates 3

Sub-Conscious Brain - Part 4 - Brain Templates 3

Living Outside of Healthy Boundaries Brings Painful Consequences

Living Outside of Healthy Boundaries Brings Painful Consequences

Complex Trauma Limits Creativity and Ability to Handle Changes

Complex Trauma Limits Creativity and Ability to Handle Changes

Complex Trauma, Distortions and the Worst Case Scenario

Complex Trauma, Distortions and the Worst Case Scenario

Sub-Conscious Brain - Part 3 - Brain Templates 2

Sub-Conscious Brain - Part 3 - Brain Templates 2

Complex Trauma and Your IQ

Complex Trauma and Your IQ

Complex Trauma and the Mid Frontal Cortex

Complex Trauma and the Mid Frontal Cortex

Complex Trauma = One Emotion: “Happiness”

Complex Trauma = One Emotion: “Happiness”

Trauma Occurs When Secure Attachment Breaks Down

Trauma Occurs When Secure Attachment Breaks Down

Sub-Conscious Brain - Part 2 - Brain Templates

Sub-Conscious Brain - Part 2 - Brain Templates

Healing the Feelings Connected to Painful Memories

Healing the Feelings Connected to Painful Memories

Healing From Complex Trauma - Physical Signs

Healing From Complex Trauma - Physical Signs

Sub-Conscious Brain - Part 1 - Complex Trauma

Sub-Conscious Brain - Part 1 - Complex Trauma

The Root of Codependency is Shame

The Root of Codependency is Shame

Addressing Underlying Issues in Codependency

Addressing Underlying Issues in Codependency

Re-Parenting - Part 92 - Fake Logic Used in Conflict, Part 2

Re-Parenting - Part 92 - Fake Logic Used in Conflict, Part 2

The Greatest Impact of Complex Trauma is Resulting Shame

The Greatest Impact of Complex Trauma is Resulting Shame

Codependency and Relationships

Codependency and Relationships

Re-Parenting - Part 91 - Fake Logic Used in Conflict

Re-Parenting - Part 91 - Fake Logic Used in Conflict

The Cycle of Narcissism

The Cycle of Narcissism

The Sun of the Universe

The Sun of the Universe

The Co-Narcissist

The Co-Narcissist

The Narcissism Monster

The Narcissism Monster

Narcissism and Shame

Narcissism and Shame

Understanding Trauma - Part 20 - Signs of Healing

Understanding Trauma - Part 20 - Signs of Healing

A Cause of Narcissism

A Cause of Narcissism

The Narcissists Needs

The Narcissists Needs

Re-Parenting - Part 90 - Suicide and Complex Trauma

Re-Parenting - Part 90 - Suicide and Complex Trauma

Codependent Relationships

Codependent Relationships

Family Shame Roles - Part 2

Family Shame Roles - Part 2

Family Shame Roles - Part 1

Family Shame Roles - Part 1

Shame Core Beliefs

Shame Core Beliefs

Understanding Trauma - Part 19 - Captivity Trauma

Understanding Trauma - Part 19 - Captivity Trauma

Shame Solutions

Shame Solutions

Shame Results

Shame Results

Shame Triggers - Part 2

Shame Triggers - Part 2

Sitting in Shame

Sitting in Shame

Understanding Trauma - Part 18 - Political Trauma and War Trauma

Understanding Trauma - Part 18 - Political Trauma and War Trauma

Shame and Trauma

Shame and Trauma

Shame Triggers - Part 1

Shame Triggers - Part 1

What is Shame?

What is Shame?

Re-Parenting - Part 88 - Culture, Attachment and Shame

Re-Parenting - Part 88 - Culture, Attachment and Shame

Understanding Trauma - Part 15 - Neglect Trauma - Part 2

Understanding Trauma - Part 15 - Neglect Trauma - Part 2

Re-Parenting - Part 89 - Depletion and Self-Care

Re-Parenting - Part 89 - Depletion and Self-Care

Meeting Needs - Part 2

Meeting Needs - Part 2

Kerri's Story

Kerri's Story

Meeting Needs - Part 1

Meeting Needs - Part 1

Healthy Vs. Survival Tools

Healthy Vs. Survival Tools

Ending a Relationship Fears

Ending a Relationship Fears

Motivation to Change

Motivation to Change

Understanding Trauma - Part 14 - Neglect Trauma - Part 1

Understanding Trauma - Part 14 - Neglect Trauma - Part 1

Crisis Management

Crisis Management

Relationship Misconceptions - Forgiveness

Relationship Misconceptions - Forgiveness

Relationship Misconceptions - Boundaries

Relationship Misconceptions - Boundaries

Relationship Misconceptions- Consequences

Relationship Misconceptions- Consequences

Re-Parenting - Part 87 - Limerence and Relationship Addiction

Re-Parenting - Part 87 - Limerence and Relationship Addiction

Relationship Misconceptions - What is Love?

Relationship Misconceptions - What is Love?

Relationship Misconceptions - Self-Sacrifice

Relationship Misconceptions - Self-Sacrifice

Non-Negotiables - Part 2

Non-Negotiables - Part 2

Non-Negotiables - Part 1

Non-Negotiables - Part 1

Re-Parenting - Part 86 - Dating Checklist

Re-Parenting - Part 86 - Dating Checklist

Joint Effort

Joint Effort

Perception of Events

Perception of Events

Eustress vs. Distress

Eustress vs. Distress

Effects of Stress

Effects of Stress

Morag's Story

Morag's Story

Early Warning Signs of Stress

Early Warning Signs of Stress

Stress Puzzle

Stress Puzzle

Top-Down Tools

Top-Down Tools

Re-Parenting - Part 85 - 8 A's Of Emotional Needs - Part 2

Re-Parenting - Part 85 - 8 A's Of Emotional Needs - Part 2

Fight, Flight, Freeze

Fight, Flight, Freeze

Subconscious Stress

Subconscious Stress

Re-Parenting - Part 84 - 8 A's - Part 1

Re-Parenting - Part 84 - 8 A's - Part 1

Inability to Connect

Inability to Connect

How Stress Affects Telomeres

How Stress Affects Telomeres

Growing Stress

Growing Stress

Re-Parenting - Part 83 - Helpful Distinctions - Part 4

Re-Parenting - Part 83 - Helpful Distinctions - Part 4

Stresses Affect

Stresses Affect

Full Body Experience

Full Body Experience

Emotions Design

Emotions Design

Severe Adaptations

Severe Adaptations

Re-Parenting - Part 82 - Helpful Distinctions - Part 3

Re-Parenting - Part 82 - Helpful Distinctions - Part 3

Impulse Control & Coping

Impulse Control & Coping

Fake Intimacy

Fake Intimacy

Loss of Connection

Loss of Connection

Insecure Attachment

Insecure Attachment

Re-Parenting - Part 81 - Helpful Distinctions - Part 2

Re-Parenting - Part 81 - Helpful Distinctions - Part 2

Full Body Experience

Full Body Experience

Mental States

Mental States

BPD - Fighting Powerful Forces

BPD - Fighting Powerful Forces

BPD - Willpower

BPD - Willpower

Re-Parenting - Part 80 - Helpful Distinctions

Re-Parenting - Part 80 - Helpful Distinctions

BPD - Nanosecond Response

BPD - Nanosecond Response

BPD - Healing from BPD Tendencies

BPD - Healing from BPD Tendencies

BPD - Nerve Ending

BPD - Nerve Ending

BPD - Emotional Reasoning

BPD - Emotional Reasoning

T's Healing Journey

T's Healing Journey

BPD - Lack of Self-Awareness

BPD - Lack of Self-Awareness

BPD - Person A + B

BPD - Person A + B

BPD - Borderline Personality Disorder Intro

BPD - Borderline Personality Disorder Intro

Anxiety - Abandonment Anxiety

Anxiety - Abandonment Anxiety

Understanding Trauma - Part 13 - Betrayal Trauma

Understanding Trauma - Part 13 - Betrayal Trauma

Anxiety - Past Trauma

Anxiety - Past Trauma

Anxiety - Intro

Anxiety - Intro

Anxiety - Rocking Chair

Anxiety - Rocking Chair

Understanding Trauma - Part 12 - Boundaries

Understanding Trauma - Part 12 - Boundaries

Codependency - Grey Rock

Codependency - Grey Rock

Codependency- Gaslighting

Codependency- Gaslighting

Codependency - Devaluing Phase

Codependency - Devaluing Phase

Codependency - Red Flags (Rushed Intimacy)

Codependency - Red Flags (Rushed Intimacy)

Codependency - Grooming (Love-Bombing)

Codependency - Grooming (Love-Bombing)

Codependency - Grooming (Mirroring)

Codependency - Grooming (Mirroring)

Relationships - Safe People

Relationships - Safe People

Re-Parenting - Part 79 - Patience

Re-Parenting - Part 79 - Patience

Codependency - Wounded Souls

Codependency - Wounded Souls

Re-Parenting - Part 78 - Hoarding

Re-Parenting - Part 78 - Hoarding

Understanding Trauma - Part 11 - Polyvagal Theory

Understanding Trauma - Part 11 - Polyvagal Theory

Understanding Trauma - Part 10 - Healing

Understanding Trauma - Part 10 - Healing

Re-Parenting - Part 77 - Friend In Cult - Part 2

Re-Parenting - Part 77 - Friend In Cult - Part 2

Re-Parenting - Part 76 - Friend in a Cult - Part 1

Re-Parenting - Part 76 - Friend in a Cult - Part 1

Relationships - Humility

Relationships - Humility

Re-Parenting - Part 75 - Child in Denial

Re-Parenting - Part 75 - Child in Denial

Understanding Trauma - Part 9 - Fear

Understanding Trauma - Part 9 - Fear

Codependency - Don’t Trust, Don’t Talk, Don’t Feel

Codependency - Don’t Trust, Don’t Talk, Don’t Feel

Codependency - The Radar

Codependency - The Radar

Understanding Trauma - Part 8 - Trauma Responses

Understanding Trauma - Part 8 - Trauma Responses

Painful Emotions + False Guilt

Painful Emotions + False Guilt

Painful Emotions - False Guilt

Painful Emotions - False Guilt

Re-Parenting - Part 74 - Personality

Re-Parenting - Part 74 - Personality

Codependency - Narcissist True Colours

Codependency - Narcissist True Colours

Codependency - Problem Solving

Codependency - Problem Solving

Re-Parenting - Part 73 - Causes of Depression

Re-Parenting - Part 73 - Causes of Depression

Codependency - Children

Codependency - Children

Codependency - Narcissism

Codependency - Narcissism

Codependency - Survival Mode

Codependency - Survival Mode

Understanding Trauma - Part 7 - Anger

Understanding Trauma - Part 7 - Anger

Complex Trauma - Dysfunctional Parenting + the DSM

Complex Trauma - Dysfunctional Parenting + the DSM

Complex Trauma - Setting us up for Addiction

Complex Trauma - Setting us up for Addiction

Codependency - Enablers

Codependency - Enablers

Re-Parenting - Part 72 - Mental Health - Part 2

Re-Parenting - Part 72 - Mental Health - Part 2

Codependency - Loss of Identity

Codependency - Loss of Identity

Codependency - Having Needs

Codependency - Having Needs

Codependency and Shame

Codependency and Shame

Codependency - How it is Learned

Codependency - How it is Learned

Re-Parenting - Part 71 - Mental Health - Part 1

Re-Parenting - Part 71 - Mental Health - Part 1

Addiction, Codependency and Complex Trauma

Addiction, Codependency and Complex Trauma

Re-Parenting - Part 70 - Grief - Part 4 - Practical Guidelines

Re-Parenting - Part 70 - Grief - Part 4 - Practical Guidelines

Re-Parenting - Part 69 - Grief - Part 3 - Grieving Process

Re-Parenting - Part 69 - Grief - Part 3 - Grieving Process

Understanding Trauma - Part 6 - Adaptations and Soul Murder

Understanding Trauma - Part 6 - Adaptations and Soul Murder