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How Stepmothers Can Use the MINDSET Model to Boost Assertiveness"

How Stepmothers Can Use the MINDSET Model to Boost Assertiveness"

What to DO when PLANS CHANGE because your step-child takes priority.

What to DO when PLANS CHANGE because your step-child takes priority.

What to DO when YOUR PARTNER WON'T AGREE to boundaries in your step-family.

What to DO when YOUR PARTNER WON'T AGREE to boundaries in your step-family.

How to BE ASSERTIVE and MANAGE ANXIETY

How to BE ASSERTIVE and MANAGE ANXIETY

How to MAKE THINGS BETTER for you as a step-parent

How to MAKE THINGS BETTER for you as a step-parent

What to do when you FEEL ANXIOUS about visits from your step-child.

What to do when you FEEL ANXIOUS about visits from your step-child.

What to DO when RESENTMENT BUILDS to BREAKING POINT in a step-family.

What to DO when RESENTMENT BUILDS to BREAKING POINT in a step-family.

How to OVERCOME TOTAL DISAGREEMENT in a step-family

How to OVERCOME TOTAL DISAGREEMENT in a step-family

The VALUE of NOT SAYING something in a step-family.

The VALUE of NOT SAYING something in a step-family.

Are you TRYING to be TOO NICE in your step-family?

Are you TRYING to be TOO NICE in your step-family?

A strategy for GETTING your step-children to DO AS YOU SAY

A strategy for GETTING your step-children to DO AS YOU SAY

How can I STOP FEELING AN OUTSIDER in my step-family?

How can I STOP FEELING AN OUTSIDER in my step-family?

How can I talk to MY PARTNER about my step-child in a POSITIVE WAY?

How can I talk to MY PARTNER about my step-child in a POSITIVE WAY?

What to DO if your PARTNER makes step-child ARRANGEMENTS OVER yours.

What to DO if your PARTNER makes step-child ARRANGEMENTS OVER yours.

How to GET a BETTER RELATIONSHIP with your step-child

How to GET a BETTER RELATIONSHIP with your step-child

A VERY IMPORTANT thing to do in a step-family.

A VERY IMPORTANT thing to do in a step-family.

CHANGE how you FEEL about your step-family with ONE thing.

CHANGE how you FEEL about your step-family with ONE thing.

Do you GET THE BLAME for just being the step-parent in your family?

Do you GET THE BLAME for just being the step-parent in your family?

Do you feel an OUTSIDER? UNWELCOME? and UNAPPRECIATED in your step-family?

Do you feel an OUTSIDER? UNWELCOME? and UNAPPRECIATED in your step-family?

Should you FAKE IT UNTIL YOU MAKE IT', in your step-family?

Should you FAKE IT UNTIL YOU MAKE IT', in your step-family?

3 STRATEGIES for PROBLEMS in step-families

3 STRATEGIES for PROBLEMS in step-families

When your step-child REFUSES to MEET YOU

When your step-child REFUSES to MEET YOU

LIVING with an ADULT STEP-CHILD in your HOME

LIVING with an ADULT STEP-CHILD in your HOME

When CHILDREN are TOLD they DO NOT have to DO what the Step-Parent SAYS

When CHILDREN are TOLD they DO NOT have to DO what the Step-Parent SAYS

When YOUR PARTNER is still ATTACHED to THEIR EX-Partner

When YOUR PARTNER is still ATTACHED to THEIR EX-Partner

When your PARTNER INDULGES your step-child.

When your PARTNER INDULGES your step-child.

What to DO when your STEP-CHILD SPLITS you and your PARTNER

What to DO when your STEP-CHILD SPLITS you and your PARTNER

When you are the OUTSIDER in your step-family

When you are the OUTSIDER in your step-family

When your CHILD is BULLIED in your STEP-FAMILY

When your CHILD is BULLIED in your STEP-FAMILY

When your PARTNER PARENTS in BABYISH ways in a step-family.

When your PARTNER PARENTS in BABYISH ways in a step-family.

How to COPE when ADULT step-children make it DIFFICULT

How to COPE when ADULT step-children make it DIFFICULT

WHAT to DO when you FEEL STUCK in a step-family you DO NOT WANT

WHAT to DO when you FEEL STUCK in a step-family you DO NOT WANT

What to DO when your step-child MISS-BEHAVES in SOCIAL SITUATIONS

What to DO when your step-child MISS-BEHAVES in SOCIAL SITUATIONS

WHAT to DO with LOW-GRAD AGGRAVATIONS about your step-child.

WHAT to DO with LOW-GRAD AGGRAVATIONS about your step-child.

How to STOP FEELING you SHOULD LOVE your step-child, when you DON'T.

How to STOP FEELING you SHOULD LOVE your step-child, when you DON'T.

Do you GET ANXIETY from having step-children?

Do you GET ANXIETY from having step-children?

Do you DREAD the TIMES when your step-child is around?

Do you DREAD the TIMES when your step-child is around?

When your PARTNER DOESN'T BACK YOU

When your PARTNER DOESN'T BACK YOU

TIPS for how to COPE with your PARTNER'S Ex-PARTNER

TIPS for how to COPE with your PARTNER'S Ex-PARTNER

When your step-child is SAD, when they SHOULD BE HAPPY.

When your step-child is SAD, when they SHOULD BE HAPPY.

SOLVE PROBLEMS in step-families

SOLVE PROBLEMS in step-families

A LYING step-child and WHAT TO DO about it.

A LYING step-child and WHAT TO DO about it.

A BETRAYAL OF TRUST from a TEENAGE STEP-CHILD and HOW to DEAL with it.

A BETRAYAL OF TRUST from a TEENAGE STEP-CHILD and HOW to DEAL with it.

A SMALL SKILL that makes a BIG DIFFERENCE in step-parenting.

A SMALL SKILL that makes a BIG DIFFERENCE in step-parenting.

A SMALL SKILL that makes a BIG DIFFERENCE in step-parenting.

A SMALL SKILL that makes a BIG DIFFERENCE in step-parenting.

KNOW an IMPORTANT ADVANTAGE of being a step-parent

KNOW an IMPORTANT ADVANTAGE of being a step-parent

How to CHANGE HOW WE FEEL about our step-family.

How to CHANGE HOW WE FEEL about our step-family.

HOW to BUILD a BETTER RELATIONSHIP with your step-child.

HOW to BUILD a BETTER RELATIONSHIP with your step-child.

A GREAT TIP for COMMUNICATING with your step-child

A GREAT TIP for COMMUNICATING with your step-child

When you WANT 'OUT' of your step-family.

When you WANT 'OUT' of your step-family.

What to DO when your step-child does NOT KNOW HOW TO BEHAVE

What to DO when your step-child does NOT KNOW HOW TO BEHAVE

STOPPING PARENT ALIENATION in your step-child.

STOPPING PARENT ALIENATION in your step-child.

PARENT ALIENATION and your step-child

PARENT ALIENATION and your step-child

What to DO when your step-child RESISTS ALL EFFORTS for HAPPINESS

What to DO when your step-child RESISTS ALL EFFORTS for HAPPINESS

What to DO when your partner is the PROBLEM in your step-family.

What to DO when your partner is the PROBLEM in your step-family.

When your STEP-CHILD is MEAN to YOUR CHILD

When your STEP-CHILD is MEAN to YOUR CHILD

Did you 'KNOW WHAT YOU WERE GETTING INTO?' UNLIKELY, but KNOW what to DO about it.

Did you 'KNOW WHAT YOU WERE GETTING INTO?' UNLIKELY, but KNOW what to DO about it.

DOING THINGS DIFFERENTLY in a step-family.

DOING THINGS DIFFERENTLY in a step-family.

How to SOLVE PROBLEMS with your step-family RELATIVES

How to SOLVE PROBLEMS with your step-family RELATIVES

Does your step-child remain GLUM however much you TRY?

Does your step-child remain GLUM however much you TRY?

When your PARTNER PRIORITISES their CHILD over YOU, the step-parent.

When your PARTNER PRIORITISES their CHILD over YOU, the step-parent.

Some IMPORTANT COMMUNICATION in step-families

Some IMPORTANT COMMUNICATION in step-families

What to do when your step-child IRRITATES you.

What to do when your step-child IRRITATES you.

Do you TRY to be NICE but NO-ONE APPRECIATES IT?

Do you TRY to be NICE but NO-ONE APPRECIATES IT?

How to SOLVE PROBLEMS in step-families

How to SOLVE PROBLEMS in step-families

What to DO when your step-child becomes fussy about something like FOOD or NOT WANTING TO GO OUT.

What to DO when your step-child becomes fussy about something like FOOD or NOT WANTING TO GO OUT.

FIND OUT the EARLY WARNING SIGNS for step-parents.

FIND OUT the EARLY WARNING SIGNS for step-parents.

The ONE THING to AVOID asa step-parent

The ONE THING to AVOID asa step-parent

What to DO when your step-child "HATES YOUR GUTS"

What to DO when your step-child "HATES YOUR GUTS"

An IMPORTANT thing to KEEP IN MIND as a step-parent.

An IMPORTANT thing to KEEP IN MIND as a step-parent.

What about MEETING MY NEEDS inside a step-family?

What about MEETING MY NEEDS inside a step-family?

How LONG does it take to BECOME a BLENDED FAMILY?

How LONG does it take to BECOME a BLENDED FAMILY?

DIFFICULT DISCUSSIONS with your PARTNER about THEIR CHILD

DIFFICULT DISCUSSIONS with your PARTNER about THEIR CHILD

What to DO when your step-child HAS ANXIETY

What to DO when your step-child HAS ANXIETY

How to TALK to your PARTNER about THEIR CHILD

How to TALK to your PARTNER about THEIR CHILD

What to DO when your step-child is INFLUENCED by their OTHER family.

What to DO when your step-child is INFLUENCED by their OTHER family.

3 things a step-parent can DO to MAKE things BETTER

3 things a step-parent can DO to MAKE things BETTER

Is it a NEGATIVE to be a BLENDED family?

Is it a NEGATIVE to be a BLENDED family?

Why step-parenting is NOT LIKE parenting

Why step-parenting is NOT LIKE parenting

When you have AWFUL EMOTIONS TOWARDS your step-child

When you have AWFUL EMOTIONS TOWARDS your step-child

Coping STRATEGIES when it ALL GOES WRONG

Coping STRATEGIES when it ALL GOES WRONG

What HAPPENS in the END with STEP-FAMILIES?

What HAPPENS in the END with STEP-FAMILIES?

Should a STEP-CHILD have TIME ALONE with their PARENT?

Should a STEP-CHILD have TIME ALONE with their PARENT?

When people OUTSIDE the step-family DON't TRUST your MOTIVATION

When people OUTSIDE the step-family DON't TRUST your MOTIVATION

How to step-parent TEENAGERS and YOUNG ADULTS

How to step-parent TEENAGERS and YOUNG ADULTS

When your step-child develops RESTRICTIVE EATING

When your step-child develops RESTRICTIVE EATING

What to THINK about MAKING CHANGE in your step-family.

What to THINK about MAKING CHANGE in your step-family.

How to NOT BE DISAPPOINTED as a step-parent.

How to NOT BE DISAPPOINTED as a step-parent.

What to DO when your PARTNER's EX PARTNER is VERY DIFFICULT.

What to DO when your PARTNER's EX PARTNER is VERY DIFFICULT.

When your step-child DISRUPTS your EFFORTS to MOVE ON.

When your step-child DISRUPTS your EFFORTS to MOVE ON.

When your partner has a 'SPECIAL' relationship with your step-child.

When your partner has a 'SPECIAL' relationship with your step-child.

PRAISE and CRITICISM in STEP-FAMILILES

PRAISE and CRITICISM in STEP-FAMILILES

A WAY to ASK your step-child TO GET THINGS DONE

A WAY to ASK your step-child TO GET THINGS DONE

What to do with DIFFICULT ADULT step-children

What to do with DIFFICULT ADULT step-children

Are you dealing with a NARCISSIST in your step-family?

Are you dealing with a NARCISSIST in your step-family?

A SYSTEM for SOLVING problems in your step-family

A SYSTEM for SOLVING problems in your step-family

When your step-child is being NEGATIVELY INFLUENCED towards you.

When your step-child is being NEGATIVELY INFLUENCED towards you.

What to KNOW SOONER rather than LATER in a step-family

What to KNOW SOONER rather than LATER in a step-family

Are you being TOO NICE in your step-family?

Are you being TOO NICE in your step-family?

Should I STAY or should I GO in my step-family?

Should I STAY or should I GO in my step-family?

What you LABEL your step-child

What you LABEL your step-child

When you MOVE IN to your PARTNERS home

When you MOVE IN to your PARTNERS home

Discover THE MOST HELPFUL SKILL in step-parenting

Discover THE MOST HELPFUL SKILL in step-parenting

What to DO when you FEEL ANGRY AND UPSET as a step-parent

What to DO when you FEEL ANGRY AND UPSET as a step-parent

What is LOVE inside a family and how to CREATE IT in a step-family.

What is LOVE inside a family and how to CREATE IT in a step-family.

How to RELEASE your step-child's DIFFICULT EMOTIONS.

How to RELEASE your step-child's DIFFICULT EMOTIONS.

Use MAGIC QUESTIONS to get CHANGE in your step-family.

Use MAGIC QUESTIONS to get CHANGE in your step-family.

Why MEETINGS in step-families are SO USEFUL

Why MEETINGS in step-families are SO USEFUL

How to get CHANGE in your step-family to HAPPEN BETTER

How to get CHANGE in your step-family to HAPPEN BETTER

Step-families are BORN OF LOSS. How to help step-children MOVE ON.

Step-families are BORN OF LOSS. How to help step-children MOVE ON.

How to CHANGE POOR BEHAVIOUR from an adult step-child.

How to CHANGE POOR BEHAVIOUR from an adult step-child.

When your adult step-child has CUT OFF from you and your partner.

When your adult step-child has CUT OFF from you and your partner.

When your step-child is STILL RUDE even when you both disapprove.

When your step-child is STILL RUDE even when you both disapprove.

Is your step-child SUFFERING from what HAPPENED BEFORE?

Is your step-child SUFFERING from what HAPPENED BEFORE?

Is BEING in this step-family WORTH IT?

Is BEING in this step-family WORTH IT?

What to DO DIFFERENTLY as a step-parent

What to DO DIFFERENTLY as a step-parent

Use BETTER QUESTIONS in your step-family.

Use BETTER QUESTIONS in your step-family.

How to USE INFLUENCE with your step-child.

How to USE INFLUENCE with your step-child.

How to get BETTER ANSWERS from your step-child

How to get BETTER ANSWERS from your step-child

What to do when you DON'T WANT your step-child AROUND

What to do when you DON'T WANT your step-child AROUND

What to do if your step-child LIES or STEALS

What to do if your step-child LIES or STEALS

HOW to SOLVE BAD BEHAVIOUR in a step-child

HOW to SOLVE BAD BEHAVIOUR in a step-child

WHAT to do if your RELATIONSHIP with your TEEN STEP-CHILD is DETERIORATING

WHAT to do if your RELATIONSHIP with your TEEN STEP-CHILD is DETERIORATING

When your STEP-CHILD thinks they came FIRST and wants it to STAY THAT WAY.

When your STEP-CHILD thinks they came FIRST and wants it to STAY THAT WAY.

Hoe to TALK to your PARTNER about their PARENTING

Hoe to TALK to your PARTNER about their PARENTING

Are you PUSHING for things in your STEP-FAMILY?

Are you PUSHING for things in your STEP-FAMILY?

How to make RULES WORK

How to make RULES WORK

How to STOP your step-child GETTING AWAY with things.

How to STOP your step-child GETTING AWAY with things.

Is FOOD a PROBLEM in your step-family?

Is FOOD a PROBLEM in your step-family?

What to DO when you CAN'T live with your step-families CULTURE

What to DO when you CAN'T live with your step-families CULTURE

Is your step-child POISONED AGAINST YOU?

Is your step-child POISONED AGAINST YOU?

When your step-child is SO RUDE or IGNORES you.

When your step-child is SO RUDE or IGNORES you.

RESENTING your STEP-CHILDREN now you have a BABY of your OWN?

RESENTING your STEP-CHILDREN now you have a BABY of your OWN?

What to do when your step-child has anxiety or OCD type behaviours.

What to do when your step-child has anxiety or OCD type behaviours.

3 STRATEGIES for COPING with RESENTMENT in your step-family.

3 STRATEGIES for COPING with RESENTMENT in your step-family.

Who SHOULD take PRIORITY in your partner's life? YOU or your STEP-CHILD

Who SHOULD take PRIORITY in your partner's life? YOU or your STEP-CHILD

How to ASSERT yourself in your step-family.

How to ASSERT yourself in your step-family.

FED UP with ALWAYS being the ONE to say 'NO' in your Step-family?

FED UP with ALWAYS being the ONE to say 'NO' in your Step-family?

What to DO as a STEP-PARENT at CHRISTMAS

What to DO as a STEP-PARENT at CHRISTMAS

How to encourage RESPECT in a step-family

How to encourage RESPECT in a step-family

Don't RESCUE your PARTNER form their PARENTING STYLE

Don't RESCUE your PARTNER form their PARENTING STYLE

How to TALK to your PARTNER about THEIR children

How to TALK to your PARTNER about THEIR children

Are people PROJECTING their ANGER onto you, the step-parent?

Are people PROJECTING their ANGER onto you, the step-parent?

What TO DO when your partner OVER-INDULGES their child.

What TO DO when your partner OVER-INDULGES their child.

When your step-child is a BAD INFLUENCE on your CHILD

When your step-child is a BAD INFLUENCE on your CHILD

When your step-child is ACTING like a BABY

When your step-child is ACTING like a BABY

What to DO when you DON'T LIKE your PARTNER TELLING YOUR CHILD OFF in your step-family.

What to DO when you DON'T LIKE your PARTNER TELLING YOUR CHILD OFF in your step-family.

PHOTOGRAPHS in Step-families

PHOTOGRAPHS in Step-families

HOW to COPE with UNFAIRNESS between children in a step-family

HOW to COPE with UNFAIRNESS between children in a step-family

How to HELP a DYSFUNCTIONAL step-family

How to HELP a DYSFUNCTIONAL step-family

HOW to be a POSITIVE step-parent

HOW to be a POSITIVE step-parent

What to DO when you DON'T LOVE your step-children.

What to DO when you DON'T LOVE your step-children.

How to SOLVE DISAGREEMENTS with your partner about PARENTING

How to SOLVE DISAGREEMENTS with your partner about PARENTING

Do you DISAGREE about the way to DO things in your step-family?

Do you DISAGREE about the way to DO things in your step-family?

How to IMPROVE the RELATIONSHIP with your step-child

How to IMPROVE the RELATIONSHIP with your step-child

Do OTHERS have more say in your step-family than YOU DO?

Do OTHERS have more say in your step-family than YOU DO?

How do I STOP having to do SO MUCH in my step-family?

How do I STOP having to do SO MUCH in my step-family?

What NOT to do when COMMUNICATING in your step-family.

What NOT to do when COMMUNICATING in your step-family.

Is your partner STILL ATTACHED to their EX-Partner?

Is your partner STILL ATTACHED to their EX-Partner?

How to COUNTER NEGATIVITY in your step-child's OTHER family.

How to COUNTER NEGATIVITY in your step-child's OTHER family.

DOES your STEP-CHILD HATE you?

DOES your STEP-CHILD HATE you?

How to GET things YOUR WAY in a step-family.

How to GET things YOUR WAY in a step-family.

How to DEAL with the STUFF we HATE in Step-families

How to DEAL with the STUFF we HATE in Step-families

Wanting CHANGE in your step-family, but meeting RESISTANCE?

Wanting CHANGE in your step-family, but meeting RESISTANCE?

How to STOP USELESS, REPETITIVE arguments in step-families

How to STOP USELESS, REPETITIVE arguments in step-families

Is step-family life MUCH WORSE than you'd imagined?

Is step-family life MUCH WORSE than you'd imagined?

Does NO-ONE say NO to your step-child?

Does NO-ONE say NO to your step-child?

Is being in a STEP-FAMILY making you ILL

Is being in a STEP-FAMILY making you ILL

How to DEAL with UNFAIRNESS in step-families

How to DEAL with UNFAIRNESS in step-families

When you have a NEW BABY and DON'T WANT your step-child

When you have a NEW BABY and DON'T WANT your step-child

HOW to BRING step-siblings TOGETHER

HOW to BRING step-siblings TOGETHER

SELFISH? SELF-CENTERED step-child? What to do

SELFISH? SELF-CENTERED step-child? What to do

Is your Step-child MISERABLE on a NICE DAY-OUT?

Is your Step-child MISERABLE on a NICE DAY-OUT?

How to put the family TOGETHER - getting CHANGE.

How to put the family TOGETHER - getting CHANGE.

What to do when I get ANGRY as a STEP-Parent

What to do when I get ANGRY as a STEP-Parent

Should I have a CHILD? A step-parent's DILEMMA

Should I have a CHILD? A step-parent's DILEMMA

What to DO when your STEP-CHILDREN Should know what to DO, but DON'T

What to DO when your STEP-CHILDREN Should know what to DO, but DON'T

What to do when you DREAD your Step-children's VISITS

What to do when you DREAD your Step-children's VISITS

DO you feel REBUFFED by your STEP-CHILD's POOR behaviour?

DO you feel REBUFFED by your STEP-CHILD's POOR behaviour?

When your PARTNER is OVER-INDULGENT with your step-child.

When your PARTNER is OVER-INDULGENT with your step-child.

How to solve BULLYING in your step-family

How to solve BULLYING in your step-family

When you DREAD the STEP-CHILDREN coming to STAY

When you DREAD the STEP-CHILDREN coming to STAY

When your PARTNER wants the EASY-LIFE and OPTS-OUT of co-parenting in your step-family.

When your PARTNER wants the EASY-LIFE and OPTS-OUT of co-parenting in your step-family.

CULTURE CLASHES between families

CULTURE CLASHES between families

About the booklet, Step-children's DIFFICULT BEHAVIOUR

About the booklet, Step-children's DIFFICULT BEHAVIOUR

ANGRY with your step-child's BEHAVIOUR / ATTITUDE?

ANGRY with your step-child's BEHAVIOUR / ATTITUDE?

FRUSTRATED by LACK OF CHANGE in your step-family?

FRUSTRATED by LACK OF CHANGE in your step-family?

HOW to START OUT as a step-parent

HOW to START OUT as a step-parent

The WORST time to FORM as a step family

The WORST time to FORM as a step family

2nd BEST and NOT A PRIORITY in your step-family?

2nd BEST and NOT A PRIORITY in your step-family?

WHAT is WRONG with wanting ONE HAPPY FAMILY?

WHAT is WRONG with wanting ONE HAPPY FAMILY?

ANNOYED at your PARTNER's PARENTING STYLE?

ANNOYED at your PARTNER's PARENTING STYLE?

Your STEP-CHILD and their CUDDLY TOY

Your STEP-CHILD and their CUDDLY TOY

Does ONE step-child in particular DRIVE you INSANE

Does ONE step-child in particular DRIVE you INSANE

When your step-child IGNORES or DISOBEYS you

When your step-child IGNORES or DISOBEYS you

HOW to START as a STEP-PARENT

HOW to START as a STEP-PARENT

WHAT to do when the STEP-CHILDREN do not want to 'MOVE ON'.

WHAT to do when the STEP-CHILDREN do not want to 'MOVE ON'.

The 4 things to do when your TEEN step child is RUDE to you

The 4 things to do when your TEEN step child is RUDE to you

Who should REWARD a STEP-PARENT for all they do?

Who should REWARD a STEP-PARENT for all they do?

Should STEP-CHILDREN be allowed to ARRIVE UNANNOUNCED?

Should STEP-CHILDREN be allowed to ARRIVE UNANNOUNCED?