Канал: Vanessa and Xander Marin

Us hearing something we need to debrief about when we get home

Us hearing something we need to debrief about when we get home

Have you heard The Bristle Reaction?

Have you heard The Bristle Reaction?

Why Do Guys Do This? - Xander Explains Male Behavior Part 2

Why Do Guys Do This? - Xander Explains Male Behavior Part 2

EPISODE 160: These 4 Communication Mistakes Cause Breakups

EPISODE 160: These 4 Communication Mistakes Cause Breakups

Do you only touch your partner when you want sex?

Do you only touch your partner when you want sex?

Only 13% of couples say they’re happy with this

Only 13% of couples say they’re happy with this

Are you struggling with low libido?

Are you struggling with low libido?

I want a guy that’s obsessed with me…

I want a guy that’s obsessed with me…

Ew I think I stepped in shit…

Ew I think I stepped in shit…

What frustrates you the most about your sex life these days?

What frustrates you the most about your sex life these days?

Maybe It's Not Low Libido

Maybe It's Not Low Libido

EPISODE 159: “Why Do Guys Do This?” - Xander Explains Male Behavior Part 2

EPISODE 159: “Why Do Guys Do This?” - Xander Explains Male Behavior Part 2

Smash or Pass (Part 21)

Smash or Pass (Part 21)

When you realize you weren’t actually in a bad mood…

When you realize you weren’t actually in a bad mood…

Trying New Things

Trying New Things

Are you ready to get back in the saddle?

Are you ready to get back in the saddle?

When you just did filthy things to each other...

When you just did filthy things to each other...

Smash or Pass (Part 20)

Smash or Pass (Part 20)

Quick question for you...

Quick question for you...

What is my perfect sandwich?

What is my perfect sandwich?

EPISODE 158: Maybe It’s Not Low Libido…

EPISODE 158: Maybe It’s Not Low Libido…

When someone says. "Don't tell your husband..."

When someone says. "Don't tell your husband..."

Is alcohol actually harming your sex life?

Is alcohol actually harming your sex life?

Can I ever orgasm without a vibrator again?

Can I ever orgasm without a vibrator again?

Do you and your partner have a good sex life?

Do you and your partner have a good sex life?

Bringing Toys Into The Bedroom

Bringing Toys Into The Bedroom

When They’re Not In The Mood

When They’re Not In The Mood

Trying Viral Positions Part 23

Trying Viral Positions Part 23

What To Do When It's Been A While...

What To Do When It's Been A While...

Come on a Double Date with Us! (“Know Ya Boo” Part 2)

Come on a Double Date with Us! (“Know Ya Boo” Part 2)

Smash or Pass (Part 19)

Smash or Pass (Part 19)

What Do Men Actually Want in the Bedroom

What Do Men Actually Want in the Bedroom

Me on my way to go sit on my husband’s face

Me on my way to go sit on my husband’s face

Being Judged

Being Judged

When my husband never gets all the tea

When my husband never gets all the tea

What do women really want in the bedroom?

What do women really want in the bedroom?

When they use actual technique

When they use actual technique

Are you guilty of this?

Are you guilty of this?

Am I The Asshole? In Laws Edition

Am I The Asshole? In Laws Edition

EPISODE 156: What To Do When It’s Been A While… (The Dry Spell Episode)

EPISODE 156: What To Do When It’s Been A While… (The Dry Spell Episode)

Quick question from a couple's therapist...

Quick question from a couple's therapist...

This is NOT okay!

This is NOT okay!

Trying Viral Positions Part 22

Trying Viral Positions Part 22

Resentment

Resentment

Loading The Dishwasher

Loading The Dishwasher

No One Has Made This Drastic

No One Has Made This Drastic

Parenting

Parenting

Can a marriage survive without sex?

Can a marriage survive without sex?

3 Things I Let Go Of To Be a Better Partner

3 Things I Let Go Of To Be a Better Partner

How To Stop Feeling Resentment In Your Relationship

How To Stop Feeling Resentment In Your Relationship

EPISODE 155: Am I The Asshole? In-Laws Edition

EPISODE 155: Am I The Asshole? In-Laws Edition

The Truth Of What Actually Happened

The Truth Of What Actually Happened

Who’s Gonna Get Excited About That?

Who’s Gonna Get Excited About That?

You can only pick 2

You can only pick 2

Do you wait until you’re starving to eat?

Do you wait until you’re starving to eat?

I Did The Dishes

I Did The Dishes

Are you making these initiation mistakes?

Are you making these initiation mistakes?

Why does my partner flinch every time I go to touch her?

Why does my partner flinch every time I go to touch her?

Send me a video of you pleasuring yourself

Send me a video of you pleasuring yourself

Libido Is Not the Problem

Libido Is Not the Problem

The Secret Of Foreplay Technique You Don't Even Know About

The Secret Of Foreplay Technique You Don't Even Know About

Bad Initiation Tactics

Bad Initiation Tactics

EPISODE 154: How To Stop Feeling Resentment In Your Relationship

EPISODE 154: How To Stop Feeling Resentment In Your Relationship

My Husband Laying in My Lap

My Husband Laying in My Lap

Problem Solving

Problem Solving

3 Things I Let Go Of To Be a Better Partner

3 Things I Let Go Of To Be a Better Partner

Getting Defensive

Getting Defensive

These Things Will NOT Fix Your Relationship Issues

These Things Will NOT Fix Your Relationship Issues

Your Partner Loves Your Body

Your Partner Loves Your Body

“What do I do about low libido?”

“What do I do about low libido?”

The Perfect Fight

The Perfect Fight

EPISODE 153: The Secret Foreplay Technique You Don’t Even Know About

EPISODE 153: The Secret Foreplay Technique You Don’t Even Know About

Sex isn’t just about orgasm (Part 2)

Sex isn’t just about orgasm (Part 2)

That's Very Male Of You

That's Very Male Of You

What NOT To Say If Your Partner Is Struggling With Performance Issues

What NOT To Say If Your Partner Is Struggling With Performance Issues

Parenting Example

Parenting Example

Can this help you have more empathy for your male partner?

Can this help you have more empathy for your male partner?

Sex Creates Intimacy

Sex Creates Intimacy

Does your husband do this?

Does your husband do this?

What comes first, sex or connection?

What comes first, sex or connection?

How To Get Your Partner Open Up About Sex

How To Get Your Partner Open Up About Sex

EPISODE 152: Breaking Down a Text Fight

EPISODE 152: Breaking Down a Text Fight

Strange Hand Job Tip

Strange Hand Job Tip

Behind the scene of our April Fools prank....

Behind the scene of our April Fools prank....

Are your partner’s needs your responsibility?

Are your partner’s needs your responsibility?

The Nose Dive Method

The Nose Dive Method

When you go to try Butt Stuff for the first time and don't know where to begin....

When you go to try Butt Stuff for the first time and don't know where to begin....

Walking with your husband

Walking with your husband

Do you struggle with your confidence in the bedroom?

Do you struggle with your confidence in the bedroom?

Take Your Best Guess

Take Your Best Guess

What does your aftercare routine look like?

What does your aftercare routine look like?

EPISODE 151: How To Get Your Partner To Open Up About Sex (Even If They’re Resistant)

EPISODE 151: How To Get Your Partner To Open Up About Sex (Even If They’re Resistant)

“Can you explain the clitoris to my partner?”

“Can you explain the clitoris to my partner?”

Let's Talk About Performance Issue

Let's Talk About Performance Issue

What invention does your relationship need?

What invention does your relationship need?

We need your help naming our first physical product.

We need your help naming our first physical product.

DON’T TAKE IT PERSONALLY

DON’T TAKE IT PERSONALLY

Why would you desire sex that doesn’t satisfy you?

Why would you desire sex that doesn’t satisfy you?

Are you worried about how often you desire sex?

Are you worried about how often you desire sex?

Male Performance Issues

Male Performance Issues

Are you guilty of doing this in the bedroom?

Are you guilty of doing this in the bedroom?

When you’re on top for more than a couple of minutes…

When you’re on top for more than a couple of minutes…

Is there a nagging voice in the back of your head saying...

Is there a nagging voice in the back of your head saying...

What To Do About Performance Issues

What To Do About Performance Issues

EPISODE 150: Smash Or Pass? We Try The Wildest Sex Tips You’ve Ever Heard (Volume 3)

EPISODE 150: Smash Or Pass? We Try The Wildest Sex Tips You’ve Ever Heard (Volume 3)

“How do penis performance issues make you feel?”

“How do penis performance issues make you feel?”

Normal Parts of Intimacy You Don’t See On TV (Part 5)

Normal Parts of Intimacy You Don’t See On TV (Part 5)

Understanding Not Agreement

Understanding Not Agreement

When he finally discovered my initiation style

When he finally discovered my initiation style

Smash Or Pass: Part 17

Smash Or Pass: Part 17

Irritated that your partner doesn’t follow through on your requests?

Irritated that your partner doesn’t follow through on your requests?

What if you had an entire year of creative dates planned out for you?

What if you had an entire year of creative dates planned out for you?

Does their dirty talk give you the ick?

Does their dirty talk give you the ick?

Have you heard of the "First Pancake Rule"?

Have you heard of the "First Pancake Rule"?

Need help understanding where your partner is coming from?

Need help understanding where your partner is coming from?

EPISODE 149: Partner Having Penis Performance Problems? Here’s What To Do - And What Not To Do

EPISODE 149: Partner Having Penis Performance Problems? Here’s What To Do - And What Not To Do

When dirty talking goes wrong…

When dirty talking goes wrong…

Are you curious where your fantasies come from?

Are you curious where your fantasies come from?

Smash or Pass (Part 16)

Smash or Pass (Part 16)

Here's Our Definition Of Fantasy...

Here's Our Definition Of Fantasy...

My Penis While I’m Sleeping…

My Penis While I’m Sleeping…

Normal Parts of Intimacy You Don’t See On TV (Part 4)

Normal Parts of Intimacy You Don’t See On TV (Part 4)

When he says he wants more dirty talk from you…

When he says he wants more dirty talk from you…

Feel like you don’t have any fantasies in the bedroom?

Feel like you don’t have any fantasies in the bedroom?

Fantasy vs Desire

Fantasy vs Desire

What is a Fantasy?

What is a Fantasy?

EPISODE 148: “Help Me See Where My Partner Is Coming From!” (Advice Episode)

EPISODE 148: “Help Me See Where My Partner Is Coming From!” (Advice Episode)

Is your favorite podcaster guilty of this?

Is your favorite podcaster guilty of this?

Are our pets thinking this about us?

Are our pets thinking this about us?

Is your partner being an adult?

Is your partner being an adult?

Trying Viral Positions (Part 21)

Trying Viral Positions (Part 21)

Does this make you jealous?

Does this make you jealous?

Normal Parts of Intimacy You Don’t See On TV (Part 3)

Normal Parts of Intimacy You Don’t See On TV (Part 3)

How to stop Nagging?

How to stop Nagging?

Maybe it’s not low libido…

Maybe it’s not low libido…

Let's talk about Nagging.

Let's talk about Nagging.

YouTube sent us this for hitting 100K followers…

YouTube sent us this for hitting 100K followers…

EPISODE 147: Your Sexual Fantasies Revealed

EPISODE 147: Your Sexual Fantasies Revealed

Has this ever happened to you in a hotel?

Has this ever happened to you in a hotel?

Just Socks

Just Socks

Smash or Pass: Part 15

Smash or Pass: Part 15

Tongues In Ears

Tongues In Ears

“When was the last time you went down on me?”

“When was the last time you went down on me?”

Trying Viral Positions (Part 20)

Trying Viral Positions (Part 20)

Women Want This

Women Want This

When initiation goes very wrong

When initiation goes very wrong

What is Sexsommia?

What is Sexsommia?

When you realize the issue isn’t “low libido”…

When you realize the issue isn’t “low libido”…

What do you secretly wish your partner would stop dong in the bedroom?

What do you secretly wish your partner would stop dong in the bedroom?

EPISODE 146: Are You Nagging? Or Is Your Partner Being Childish?

EPISODE 146: Are You Nagging? Or Is Your Partner Being Childish?

Therapist Reacts To Love Is Blind

Therapist Reacts To Love Is Blind

So how is therapy really going…

So how is therapy really going…

When she takes your fantasy a little too seriously

When she takes your fantasy a little too seriously

My husband’s answer to everything…

My husband’s answer to everything…

Why did this feel like an insult?

Why did this feel like an insult?

When you’re halfway through The Sex Challenge…

When you’re halfway through The Sex Challenge…

Do you feel like you have no sex drive?

Do you feel like you have no sex drive?

Finding A Therapist

Finding A Therapist

Does he initiate like this?

Does he initiate like this?

This isn’t our first rodeo…

This isn’t our first rodeo…

EPISODE 145: What Your Partner Secretly Wishes You’d Stop Doing In The Bedroom

EPISODE 145: What Your Partner Secretly Wishes You’d Stop Doing In The Bedroom

Are you in a season of survival right now?

Are you in a season of survival right now?

Body confidence is a Journey not a Destination

Body confidence is a Journey not a Destination

Your Friendly Reminder

Your Friendly Reminder

Is your partner excited to see you naked?

Is your partner excited to see you naked?

A realization that will change your sex life forever

A realization that will change your sex life forever

How is sexual perfectionism affecting your relationship

How is sexual perfectionism affecting your relationship

Normal parts of intimacy you don’t see on TV (Part 1)

Normal parts of intimacy you don’t see on TV (Part 1)

Did you fuck this up?

Did you fuck this up?

Body Image

Body Image

EPISODE 144: We’re In Couples Therapy

EPISODE 144: We’re In Couples Therapy

Last Valentine's Day gift-giving stressed you down?

Last Valentine's Day gift-giving stressed you down?

THIS miscommunication caused a problem for us in the bedroom…

THIS miscommunication caused a problem for us in the bedroom…

What are guys really thinking about during sex??

What are guys really thinking about during sex??

This is what happens when you follow the “Fuck First” rule

This is what happens when you follow the “Fuck First” rule

What Valentine’s Day is really like when you’re married

What Valentine’s Day is really like when you’re married

Are you putting all the pressure on your partner in the bedroom?

Are you putting all the pressure on your partner in the bedroom?

Sex therapist rates vaginal hygiene products

Sex therapist rates vaginal hygiene products

When I decide to prioritize my own pleasure

When I decide to prioritize my own pleasure

This topic made Vanessa think twice 👀

This topic made Vanessa think twice 👀

EPISODE 143: The Body Confidence Episode - How To Feel Good In Your Skin During Sex

EPISODE 143: The Body Confidence Episode - How To Feel Good In Your Skin During Sex

The one phrase Vanessa can never remember…

The one phrase Vanessa can never remember…

Happy anniversary to our best selling book, Sex Talks!

Happy anniversary to our best selling book, Sex Talks!

“We LOVED The Connection Challenge this month”

“We LOVED The Connection Challenge this month”

This one trick can make your relationship WAY more romantic!!

This one trick can make your relationship WAY more romantic!!

That one time Xander surprised Vanessa with her biggest fantasy. 👀

That one time Xander surprised Vanessa with her biggest fantasy. 👀

Is this a romantic Valentine’s Day gift?

Is this a romantic Valentine’s Day gift?

What will your Valentine’s Day celebration look like?

What will your Valentine’s Day celebration look like?

The secret 🤫 to having more romance in your relationship!

The secret 🤫 to having more romance in your relationship!

EPISODE 142: Are You Lazy In Bed? Here’s What Your Partner Says…

EPISODE 142: Are You Lazy In Bed? Here’s What Your Partner Says…

When you get interrupted while you’re reading a spicy scene

When you get interrupted while you’re reading a spicy scene

Is your man’s Sex Personality Type “The Giver”?

Is your man’s Sex Personality Type “The Giver”?

How do I talk to my wife about being more adventurous in the bedroom without hurting her feelings?

How do I talk to my wife about being more adventurous in the bedroom without hurting her feelings?

Does this sound like you?? 👂

Does this sound like you?? 👂

Do you regret it?

Do you regret it?

Taking the biggest step back when they say…

Taking the biggest step back when they say…

The best conversation starter to ask your partner!

The best conversation starter to ask your partner!

What if you’re not in the mood when they initiate?

What if you’re not in the mood when they initiate?

Taking the biggest step back when they say…

Taking the biggest step back when they say…

Do you know how much your partner loves this?

Do you know how much your partner loves this?