“I have a strong desire for sexual fulfilment. How can my husband think that because he doesn’t want it, that I don’t need it?! I DO need it.”

“I keep asking my wife to make love with me, but she refuses. She says she’s too tired, she doesn’t feel well, or she says I’m too focused on sex- that I’m a sex addict.”

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Sexual rejection not only affects how you feel about your sex life- it affects how you feel about your marriage. In fact, Dr. Joe Beam earned his PhD studying the correlation between marital satisfaction and sexual satisfaction. There is a world-wide consensus among researchers and therapists that marital satisfaction and sexual satisfaction are strongly connected.

Making love with your spouse is a critical component of your relationship and connection to one another.

If you feel sexually rejected by your spouse we have three specific suggestions. First consider what you desire from your spouse sexually. Is what you desire within his/her physical capabilities; within his/her beliefs and values?

Next, consider how you approach your spouse about what you desire sexually (and why). It’s important to find the right time and setting to have this conversation. You need to explain how you FEEL and not attack your spouse.

Finally, if what you desire is within your spouse’s capabilities and morals; if you are open with them about what you want, how you feel, and how your spouse’s cooperation would make you feel, and your spouse still rejects you sexually, it may be beneficial to seek out professional help. (This may include abuse, rape, or past relationships that still affect your spouse today.)

If your spouse does not want to get help, consider once again how you approach him or her about this. Ask that your spouse does this for you as well as for him/herself. Be supportive.

If you know, or heavily suspect, that sexual issues in your marriage are based out of problems in your relationship, please contact us. We will connect you with the best resource that can help.
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