In episode 20 of the Behind the Dreams podcast, host Claud Williams sits down with the extraordinary playwright, Ryan Calais Cameron, to delve deep into the essence of vulnerability, artistry, and self-worth. Ryan opens up about the transformational experiences that have shaped his life and work, from his journey of faith and fatherhood to his critically acclaimed play "For Black Boys Who Have Considered Suicide When the Hue Gets Too Heavy."
Ryan and Claud explore the societal and personal challenges black men face, particularly around themes of vulnerability and conditional love. They discuss the importance of embracing one's identity, overcoming societal conditioning, and the vital role of community and support systems. Ryan emphasises the need for psychological safety, self-belief, and staying true to one's artistic vision. He also touches on his unique approach to social media and maintaining focus amidst noise.
Key Takeaways:
- Self-Worth and Conditional Love: Ryan discusses how societal conditioning impacts men's perceptions of their worth, often linking it to their ability to provide.
- Vulnerability as Strength: Sharing personal feelings and experiences can lead to deeper human connections and is pivotal in breaking down toxic masculinity.
- The Importance of Community: Checking in on one another and providing mutual support can be life-saving and transformative.
- Balancing Art and Life: Ryan talks about finding headspace and the challenges of balancing professional aspirations with family responsibilities.
- Entrepreneurial Mindset: Ryan details his proactive approach to creating opportunities in the arts, including founding his company, Nouveau Riche, to carve out a space for emerging artists of colour.
Chapters
00:00 - Intro
02:11 - Vulnerability and Self-Acceptance
09:59 - Self-Doubt and Societal Expectations
17:26 - Navigating Mental Health and Suicidal Thoughts
23:32 - Emotional Honesty and Brotherhood
28:01 - Toxic Masculinity and Redefining Healthy Relationships
30:33 - Achieving Dreams Through Theater
33:13 - Self-Belief & Creative Pursuits
37:51 - Being an Independent Artist
44:33 - From Actor to Producer
