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How To Make Your Ex Miss You (Very Fast!)
In this video you’re going to learn about how to make your ex miss you;
- No Contact Rule
- Social Media Game
- What’s in it for me
- Good Feelings vs Bad Feelings
- End conversations first
- Be willing to lose
Tip #1 – No Contact Rule
The reason why using a No Contact Rule is perfectly made to make an ex miss you.
Implementing a No Contact, is designed to do two things. Number one is make your ex miss you, number two is to give you time to reset our life.
It sounds cliché but using the No Contact Rule utilizes something called psychological reactance, which is “When you deprive someone of a behavioural freedom, they are more likely to try to re-obtain that freedom.”
Tip #2 – Social Media Game
So, I hate to say it but the vast majority of people I’ve worked with really suck at social media. The cliched advice is to post stuff that is really awesome on social media usually people take that as doing something like going out and party and take a picture with another girl or guy to make my ex jealous.
Let’s say one of the reasons your ex broke up with you is because they thought you were too boring, well social media is a perfect tool for you to re-cultivate that idea to take the boring lifestyle your ex thinks you have to recapture his attention.
This paired with your knowledge of your ex with your social media game, by visiting locations he’s always wanted to go, or activities that he’s always wanted to do.
Tip #3 – What’s in it for them
Human beings tend to be self-interested, in every aspect of their lives. It’s strange to think of humans as transnational people but that’s kind of how we are especially when it comes to relationships.
The reason you want your ex back is because you think they can give you something that no one else can, the same applies to your ex, they think that being with you isn’t going to do anything for them.
Once you understand this, you can take a minute and reverse-engineer the break up and start thinking about what your ex wants that you couldn’t provide, changing your perspective on the break up will help you understand what you need to do to get your ex to see your value.
Tip #4 – Good Feelings vs Bad Feelings
When looking at a relationship, you deal with emotions, determines the healthiness of the relationship. The more good emotions you can create within your ex the more likely they are to be drawn to you, but the same thing applies to bad feelings.
Tip #5 – End conversations first
Most relationship coaches will tell you that you need to end all conversations 100% of the time, but I am realistic and that its nearly impossible especially when dealing with an ex who really doesn’t want to talk to you at first.
“Try to get a majority of the conversation ended first”
Tip #6 – Be willing to lose
This is the most important one, it’s all about leverage. You have to have the willingness to be able to walk away and not get this person back. People who manage to get this feeling tend to do better, because it seeps into every aspect of their lives and they don’t have their ex on a pedestal.
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