10 signs that you are in a love-hate relationship.
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10 signes que vous êtes dans une relation amour-haine.
10 segni che hai una relazione di amore-odio.
1. Break-up and make-up relationship cycle.
When you argue with your significant other, you argue hard.
There are often threats of breaking up when you fight and calling it quits. In these moments, you truly can't stand this person.
However, hours later you are back to hugging and loving each other, promising that you are committed.
You are able to make up quickly and forget about the heated argument that you had.
Unfortunately, this make-up session is as temporary as your fight. The cycle of arguing and making up repeats over and over.
2. Your partner is your prize.

While you do value your relationship, there are definitely certain parts of your lover that you just can't stand.
You may consider leaving, but you also know that you have put way too much of your energy and effort into this relationship to walk away from it.
You view maintaining the relationship as more of an accomplishment or ego boost.
And The longer you stay in it, the greater chance you have of winning the “prize” of your boyfriend or girlfriend either committing to you permanently or submitting to your needs and desires.
3. No long-term purpose for your relationship.
You are sticking with this relationship just to be in it.
Perhaps you are desperate to have a relationship because you have been single for so long.
You are willing to put up with things you hate in this person just to be in a relationship.
Sure, you know in your heart of hearts that the relationship is not likely to have a future, but you keep telling yourself it's okay because it's filling a void in your life.
4. You don't have a deep connection.
You love some parts of this person and you hate others.
While these are two very strong emotions, there is not a true bond of intimacy between the two of you.
Maybe you love the superficial things, like his flashy car or her amazing body.
5. You act different in public.
To the outside world, you probably seem like the ideal couple.
You make other couples jealous with your picture-perfect relationship. You come across as a match made in heaven.
However, there is a nagging truth you know that you're hiding from other people. You know on the inside that it's all a farce, and you periodically want to get out of the relationship.
6. You have unresolved issues.
You have frequent conflicts — some big, some small, and some even irrelevant. But the bigger issue is that these conflicts have never been resolved.
Maybe you never talk about the conflict, or you just sweep it under the rug and move on to the intense make-up period.
7. You hate things about him or her.
While you do love some things about your flame, there are other things you just can't stand.
Whenever you want to recommit to your love for him or her, you have this nagging inner voice reminding you that there's a serious disconnect.
8. You talk behind your lover's back.
You have so much resentment toward this person that you are constantly talking about it with other people.
You need to share your frustrations and feelings with your friends for support and validation.
Maybe they see something you can't see.
Maybe there's a trick to this relationship thing that you're missing. Maybe they know how you can jump off this crazy emotional treadmill.
You and your partner can't communicate openly about the problem. It's impossible for you to open up to him or her and talk through the issues you have without it devolving into all-out warfare.
Your only option is to release your anxieties by talking to others, even though you know it might hurt or anger him or her.
9. You keep your options open.
Is there a thought in the back of your head that if you can find a replacement, you're out?
Once you find someone who doesn't have those qualities you hate in your partner, you plan to jump ship.
If you see your partner as being easily replaceable, you're not in the relationship for the right reasons. The thrill of reuniting after intense arguments is beginning to wane, and now you are left with the messy truth.
In fact, you may begin to focus more and more on the qualities you hate in your partner in order to compel yourself to leave — or to push your partner out the door.
10. Sense of relief when it's over.
Maybe you've been in a love-hate relationship in the past, and once it ended, you felt enormous relief.
At one point in the relationship, the thought of it being over would have devastated you — even when you had those extreme ups and downs.

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