Enabling adult children and enabling our partners through addiction is a growing problem that needs a bright spotlight of attention. Every addict has an enabler, much like fish need water. So it is important to decide to only be part of the solution and not the problem!
Parents are spending thousands of hours and dollars on repeating the same mistakes that end up keeping the addict addicted for longer. To stop enabling is no easy task and tough love is a concept that most people and parents battle with through instinct.
Learn how we enable to fulfill our own needs and not the addicts needs. The addict, suffering a progressive disease, has one need, that is to stop using and acting out so that they can recover, arrest and treat their disease.
Parents are learning how to suffer the risks of rejection, blame, guilt and the threats of suicide, self-harm, leaving forever and more so that their loved ones can recover.
At A Course In Recovery we provide the ultimate, modern addiction, depression and anxiety recovery resources for people wanting to transform their lives, heal, enrich and grow.
Providing unique and advanced options and alternatives to depression clinics, drug rehab centres and other places that may not suit an individuals needs to grow, develop and heal holistically from whatever is holding them back from improving their personal lives.
Love is a verb, so if the result of our actions as parents or partners is harm, then it is NOT an act of love, even though it may feel like it. As we wake up to the realities of this difficult subject, we are seeing the results of addicts getting well faster and faster, with less and less unnecessary suffering from enabling. Stop giving money for rent, haircuts and a tank of gas; start realizing that it is enabling the addiction in multiple ways.
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