In today's #shortsyoutube video, I discuss the #narcissist #baiting and why this is an important part of the #narcissisticrelationship.

Why does the narcissist want to pick a fight? How do I stop believing the narcissist when they tell me I am the problem? If you find the narcissist is always pulling you in by saying negative things to you and you find you are defending yourself, then the narcissist is likely playing word games with you through baiting. The baiting is one way the narcissist starts to show they need to refill their supply and they will use you to do it. When you take the bait, and react emotionally or verbally, they have gotten what they want and know you are a good source of supply refill in the moment. When you have become the target of narcissist baiting, you want to avoid taking the bait, even though they will make it very difficult for you to avoid it. But how do you know if you are being baited? What does narcissist baiting look like? In this video I will discuss some common narcissist baiting techniques that you can look out for to better understand how narcissists bait you. Why do narcissists always want to argue? Because when they are arguing with you then you are no longer focused on them. When you are defensive based on the false accusations from the narcissist, then the conversation is about defending yourself. Why does the narcissist have to hurt you? Because it allows them to feel better about themselves. The narcissist baiting techniques and the narcissist baiting tactics are just another way in which the narcissist controls. And when you defend yourself, the narcissist knows that they have control over you. How do i stop listening to the narcissist, then? By not taking the bait. The narcissist isn’t trying to solve an issue or help you feel heard. They are starting a fight with you. Why does the narcissist always try to trick me when they don’t have to be deceptive? Because that is all the narcissist knows. If you are asking yourself why wont the narcissist leave me alone then you are likely being baited by the narcissist. And if you don’t take the bait the narcissist might use the silent treatment. If you think you are being baited by the narcissist or think why does my boyfriend want to start a fight, then this is the best time to use the grey rock method with the narcissist. How do i get the narcissist to leave me alone? With the gray rock method. When you use the gray rock method, you don’t give the narcissist more information to use against you. Love bombing might be what the narcissist relationship was based on at the beginning of the relationship, but as time goes on this is not sustainable and the narcissist ultimately shows their true colors. Why do narcissists pick fights with you? Because it always has to be about you and why you are the problem so they can continue to blame shift and not take responsibility for their actions.

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