As social movements like passport bros open the eyes of American men to dating outside the States, most will choose the endless swipe of dating apps over solo travel in most cases.
Men who choose to pursue their ambitions to date beyond borders often find themselves bound for South America.
In the vibrant city of Medellin Del from Phoenix, AZ embarks on a journey of love, facilitated by a specialized matchmaker service that connects foreigners with Colombian women for serious relationships. Del's adventure intertwines cultural exploration with the profound quest for companionship with Colombian women.
Del's friends, familiar with his adventurous spirit, were skeptical about his decision to seek a wife internationally, particularly in a country where Spanish is the primary language. "People who know me know I like to step outside my box and take chances," Del remarks. Despite their skepticism, they wished him luck and supported his bold decision.
His journey began in 2018, during his first solo trip to Cartagena. Despite his initial inexperience and lack of familiarity with Colombia, the warm hospitality of the Colombian people made a lasting impression. Del fondly recalls, "I consider Colombia my second home and that's why I'm back."
Returning to Colombia, this time to Medellin, Del is driven by a deeper understanding of what he seeks in a future bride. "Men are visual creatures," he admits, but emphasizes that this time, he is guided by his heart rather than physical appearances. Del's ideal woman must believe in God, be nurturing, compassionate, and ready to build a life together in the United States.
Del’s journey is not just about finding a wife; it’s about finding a Colombian woman who shares his vision for the future. He is open to a Latina with children and even considers having more if his future wife desires. His excitement is palpable as he anticipates meeting potential matches in Medellin.
Del's approach to this matchmaking experience is both methodical and heartfelt. He meticulously reviews dating profiles, allowing his heart to guide his choices. Among the qualities he values are nurturing, compassion, and a strong moral foundation. Language is not a barrier for Del, as he is willing to learn Spanish while appreciating a Colombiana who may learn English.
During his stay, Del meets several Latinas, each bringing their unique charm and qualities. His interactions are a blend of formal dates with casual conversations, providing him with a comprehensive understanding of each potential partner’s personality and values.
Among the Colombian women Del meets, Lena stands out. A 35-year-old nurse, Lena embodies the nurturing and compassionate traits Del admires. Their connection is immediate and grows stronger with each interaction. Del shares, "We both like jazz, working out, and doing yoga. Conversing with her was really easy."
Their dates are filled with meaningful conversations, laughter, and shared interests. Lena's affectionate and nurturing personality resonates deeply with Del.
As Del prepares to leave Medellin, he reflects on his experience with optimistic gratitude. Matchmaking has provided him with a platform to meet incredible Colombian women and explore deep connections. Del is hopeful about his future with Lena and believes they have a strong foundation for a lasting relationship.
Del’s journey in Medellin is a testament to the power of stepping outside one’s comfort zone and embracing new experiences. His story is a reminder that love can be found in unexpected places and that the pursuit of happiness often requires courage, openness, with a willingness to take risks.
Del's adventure in Medellin is more than just a quest for love; it's a journey of personal growth and cultural immersion. His story highlights the enriching experience of dating women from different backgrounds by finding common ground in shared values and aspirations. As Del and Lena look towards a future together, their story continues to inspire those who dare to seek love beyond borders.
