I’ve been married to my husband for 20 years. In the last 9 months he has drastically changed. He told me he feels no connection to me or our four children. He even went on a very mysterious cross country trip by himself. Of course I assume an affair, but he denies it. He’s been very mean and disconnected. He literally will ignore me and can go into fits of rage in a second. I have caught him in small lies. He’s became incredibly selfish and is spending absurd amounts of money on himself. He’s very hot and cold with me. One day he loves me, the next he doesn’t want to be with me. He pays almost zero attention to our children. He’s on his phone constantly. The changes came on so suddenly that I literally thought he had a brain tumor or something. He was very briefly treated for depression, but then insisted he wasn’t depressed and stopped treatment. I’m at my wits end. I’m broken and very hurt. We started marriage counseling and he went to 2. I’ve continued for the last 17 weeks. My counselor insists that I must leave him, that he will never change… But despite everything he has said, and done to me... I still want to keep my family together, and I still have love for him. Is this a waste of my time? A lost cause?
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