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For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D. -- a uniquely qualified therapist, life coach, and former university professor -- has coached tens of thousands of people from over 87 countries to achieve happiness and success in their relationships, dating, psychology, and lifestyle. Dr. Tian has been featured in international media, as well as co-hosting a radio show on national radio and a weekly dating advice column in a national newspaper in Singapore.

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Boom! Stop. I'm David Tian, Ph.D. and in this video I'm going to clarify what she means when she says "I love you, but I'm not in love with you."

Welcome to Man Up Episode 147!

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Masculinity for the Intelligent Man. I'm David Tian, Ph.D. and this is Man Up!

Hey! This is David Tian, Ph.D. and for over the past ten years, I've been helping hundreds of thousands of people in over 87 countries attain success, happiness and fulfillment in life and love. And here I am in Tokyo. Oh, by the way, welcome to Man Up Episode 147. I am here in Tokyo, in the Ginza district. Just had a sushi lunch, and I'll show you a bit of the street here. There's a cool mall there, and this is the Louis Vuitton store. Pretty cool area here, but I'm going to hide here. So much foot traffic here, this is the Chanel store.

Okay, got a question here, and it's coming from Michael from the private Facebook group. Michael asks, "I found Man Up after my soon-to-be ex dropped the bomb on me May 31st." His ex-wife. "She loves me, but isn't in love with me. What the fuck? After 19 years of love, dedication, putting in the work, providing for my family, she just deciding to bail. To be clear, there's no domestic violence or cheating. Those would be the only things that would make sense to me. If I'm being honest with myself, I don't think either of us were having our masculine or feminine needs met. When I asked for help about four or five years back, my emotions were trivialized so I withdrew. I started identifying as a victim and being trapped in my job. Led to a slow spiral into depression that was snapped by hearing my wife wanted a separation."

Okay, so up to this point, I’m going to be reading this question, but it’s quite long so I’m just going to break it up at crucial points. So first of all, he’s been in 19 years with this woman, and this was four/five years ago, he says, he started to withdraw – I assume emotionally, probably physically, because he said his emotions were trivialized.

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