Lan Hai: love children is an instinct, respect for children is a kind of education.
Lan Hai tears asked: What is your index of security at home?
The sense of security given by the family is the greatest energy throughout the children's lives.
Anxiety, fear, escape, jealousy, distrust ... a life without security is terrible and sad. You and I have done or are doing many things that undermine children's sense of security, but have never noticed them.
Lan Hai: Invited expert of CCTV "Super Parenter", Master of Education, Psychology, Sociology of Munich University.
木棉说演讲兰海:爱孩子是一种本能,尊重孩子是一种教养
兰海催泪发问:家庭中,你的安全感指数是多少?
家给予的安全感,是贯穿孩子一生最大的能量
焦虑、害怕、逃避、嫉妒、对他人不信任……没有安全感的人生可怕又可悲。很多破坏孩子安全感的事情,你我都曾经做过或正在做,却未曾察觉。
兰海:央视《超级育儿师》特邀专家,慕尼黑大学教育学、心理学、社会学硕士。
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