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Today, I want to share a profound insight that I got from watching the following video from Benjamin Smythe:
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The part of you that's nervous around women is the part of you that doesn't care about her.
Think about that for a second. It applies to every courageous thing you want to take on in life. The job interview. Telling the truth. Reaching out to someone. Asking someone out.
That nervousness we feel is natural, but it is not who we are. It's the part of us that cares for ourselves, but not other people.
It's a liberating insight. Thank you, Benjamin.
