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that is only inferior feelings
for instance in the happenings of young people musical happenings they liberate their feelings and it comes out as a feeling of loving everybody or destroying everything in a kind of all over the place way
not individually pointed
while differentiated feeling is to love that unique person for its uniqueness
which presupposes that you are capable of seeing the uniqueness of the other, of getting rid of all schematic psychological judgments,
to also see the other person as a unique person and not have some cliche judgment about them
so liberation of the heart would mean to become slowly capable of feeling and sensing the uniqueness of the other's personality and to love that uniqueness
and that doesn't mean this Christian all pardoning sweetie pie strawberry sauce love
it means on the contrary a very great precisional feeling
if one talks to them in a not quite genuine tone or makes even not quite genuine gesture of the hand
they are already shocked
they they feel the uniqueness and they want you to be yourself
I think that's the most important thing for a psychologist for instance
to love the genuine person of the patient
and to be quite openly disliking all what is not genuine in the patient
brings out in the other what he or she really is
is really meant to be by Nature
and that is real love
a love which heals or makes the other person whole
which makes the other person more him or herself
and that has nothing to do with sentimentality or being sweet or polite
it's very tiring
it's having constantly a quick precise reaction to how the other really is or is not or should be
to be quite openly disliking all what is not genuine in the patient
