What are you going to do when you feel neglected in your most important relationships? I'm not advocating divorce, but I am advocating some sort of change. The last thing I want is for either of you to feel neglected, and I realize some of you feel so stuck in your current dynamic. I'm just asking you to seek professional help before the bitterness and resentment build so high that you don't value the marriage anymore. It's so hard to feel like you're the only one who cares about this marriage, it's so hard to feel like it's all on your shoulders as you continue to feel neglected. But sometimes, there are things we can do to help shift the dynamic towards a healthier place. Let's do anything we can, including dragging our spouse to counseling to work towards repair and reconnection, because that's what you deserve.

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Marriage is all about commitment and faithfulness and trust and connection and friendship and intimacy. Are you prioritizing those in your relationship? If not, there's really no point in even getting married. That is how we HAVE a great marriage. That is what LOVE requires of us. They aren't add on's. They are essential to a healthy marriage. You can stay together, but the presence of respect and emotional safety and closeness and playfulness is what makes a relationship thrive. And it's possible for you!

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