Bonnie Sandler is a geriatric consultant who helps people navigate the system, looking for the right residence for themselves or, more likely, a family member who can no longer live autonomously. She says people rarely ask the right questions when looking for a residence and get distracted by bells and whistles when they should focus on the quality of the care. (Marie-France Coallier/ MONTREAL GAZETTE)
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