HE ADORES YOU – BUT HE NEEDS TO LEARN HOW TO LOVE HIMSELF

Your guy has to learn to love himself. This includes all the deepest and darkest parts too, the parts that scare him to death. The unfaced and unfelt parts of our psyche are the source of all neurosis and suffering. Carl Jung said that, not me.

If he only loves a certain part of himself like his looks, the rest of him will just go on undeveloped. In many ways, I was like a child before. I avoided pain or sacrifice every chance I could, and I turned into a big man-child. If this is happening to your man, you must stop it right away.

I used to advocate sticking in there, waiting for him to change. I've changed my course on that. UNLESS huge, wholesale change happens. On a spiritual, foundational, philosophical level. A man must WAKE UP to his suffering and remake his whole person in the dependence upon a power greater than himself.

**Programs and Courses on Narcissism and Selfishness can be found through my bio on Instagram: @paulgravesx**

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