Stop be nice to women, what should you do instead?
This video addresses the common pitfall of being excessively nice in relationships, particularly from the perspective of Stoicism—a philosophy emphasizing wisdom, courage, justice, and moderation. The discussion challenges the notion that being nice is sufficient for romantic success. It explores how this mindset, while well-intentioned, can often hinder genuine connections and respect, as it may come across as lacking in authenticity or being manipulative.
The video outlines several key points:
1. Being Nice Isn't Everything: It emphasizes that while kindness is essential, it should not come with the expectation of romantic interest. Stoicism teaches acting virtuously without expecting a specific outcome.
2. Don't Hide Who You Are: Encourages embracing one's true self and avoiding the suppression of personality traits to fit the 'nice guy' image.
3. Don't Just Wait for a Chance: Advocates for taking initiative and showing confidence, rather than passively waiting for romantic interest to be reciprocated.
4. Avoid Falling Too Quickly: Highlights the importance of not rushing into emotional commitments based purely on physical attraction.
5. Don't Just Tick Boxes: Discusses the pitfalls of trying to meet every perceived requirement of a partner, which can lead to inauthentic interactions.
6. Don’t Lead with Your Wallet: Critiques the use of wealth or material possessions as a means to attract romantic interest, emphasizing inner virtues over external wealth.
7. Avoid Waiting for Applause: Encourages doing good for its own sake, not for recognition or reward.
8. Don’t Do Too Many Favors: Warns against overextending oneself to gain affection, which can lead to being undervalued and disrespected.
9. Don’t Avoid Relationship Games: Recognizes the role of playful, strategic interactions in building romantic tension and chemistry.
10. The Problem with Excuses: Challenges the blaming of physical or external factors for romantic failures, focusing instead on self-perception and confidence.
The video concludes by reinforcing that genuine kindness, coupled with a balanced approach informed by Stoic virtues, is more effective in forming meaningful connections than merely being nice. It invites viewers to engage with the content by liking, subscribing, and sharing their thoughts, promoting a deeper understanding of how Stoic wisdom can enhance interpersonal dynamics.
Come explore with us: Stop Being Nice To Women, Do These 10 Things Instead
00:00 - DON'T SKIP
01:53 - 1. Being nice isn't everything
06:04 - 2. Don't hide who you are
09:08 - 3. Don't just wait for a chance
13:04 - 4. Avoid falling too quickly
16:39 - 5. Don't just tick boxes
20:28 - 6. Don’t lead with your wallet
23:04 - 7. Avoid waiting for applause
26:58 - 8. Don’t do too many favors
30:29 - 9. Don’t avoid relationship games
33:57 - 10. The problem with excuses
36:35 - CONCLUSION
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