My (27f) younger brother, sister and mom passed away in an accident 8 years ago. My father (52m) and I used to be very close before this, but we’ve drifted apart since then. I think some of it has to do with the fact I look a lot like my younger sister. She was always close to my dad and we would often joke she would take care of him when he got older. My father also isn’t really a “believer” in therapy and refuses to go. When I started going to therapy a few months after the accident, he said that I should be stronger and quote “stop giving people the satisfaction of seeing you weak”.
He remarried two years ago, but his new wife and I don’t get along. Some things she’s done include telling my father not to invite me to the wedding, telling him I was bullying her children because I refused to let them have an unsupervised party at my beach house, and I also told them they can GTFO (letters) if they continued to treat the staff disrespectfully. Her kids were 18F and 17M at the time.
When she married my dad, she was also under the impression that the money he spent on her and the house he lived in was his (he never said it was, she just assumed). My mom left me a nice amount of money in her will and I used it to invest and also work in the tech field so I’m well-off. However, considering my age I don’t think she was expecting this and I don’t think she was very pleased either.
Story 1:
AITA for kicking my dad and his wife out of my (technically their) house after they said they wanted to name their unborn twins after my deceased siblings?
Story 2:
AITA for not letting someone move into my bedroom which I don't use after they were outed and disowned?
Story 3:
AITA for telling the kids their dad took this year's Christmas away from them?
Story 4:
AITA for leaving her with an apartment she can’t pay for herself?
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