Take your Partner OFF the pedestal NOW! - Relationship Jealousy

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Putting your partner on a pedestal can be extremely damaging to any relationship and is one of the main causes of Retroactive Jealousy as well as general relationship jealousy. We'll discuss a few signs that you might be doing this in your relationship and how to stop it before it's too late!

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We are gonna be talking about five signs that you are putting your partner on a pedestal now what does putting your partner on a pedestal actually mean and how does it relate to retroactive jealousy or jealousy in relationships altogether we're gonna talk about all that today so basically to put your partner on a pedestal what this means is you admire them maybe love them so much that you believe they have no faults that you essentially put them up on this high place almost like they're a queen a king a god whatever it is and you look at them as if they are absolutely 100% perfect in every single way imaginable now that doesn't necessarily sound bad right well it kind of is so so here's why when you do that with someone when you put that attachment that they have no flaws that they're perfect that they're you know up here on this pedestal and you're down here it makes you lose your self-worth right because you think so highly of them you think they're absolutely perfect that you kind of stop looking at yourself you kind of stop caring about yourself and how you feel and you start only focusing on your significant other your partner that you've placed up there so in a way like it makes you lose your voice it makes you lose who you truly are it makes you feel like you have no say or no options right in anything because the only thing you care about is pleasing them and not pleasing yourself you know if you want to it can be as simple as if you want to go to eat at a certain restaurant but they want to go with another one like no matter what you're gonna side with them or if you want to do this tonight but they want to do that tonight no matter what you're gonna side with them it's like you're just you're you're giving them everything like like a peasant almost to a king or a queen right you're just giving in to that 100% of the time as percent of the time and again that's going to cause jealousy in a relationship and that's one of the main causes of retroactive jealousy because you think that this person your partner is absolutely perfect in every way you put this label on them and then what happens you start finding out stuff about their past and maybe this idea of perfect that they were perfect actually wasn't true and then all of a sudden your brain just can't grasp and understand and say wait no this person is perfect how could they do something like this in their past I don't understand I don't understand or you know if it's in the present oh this person so 100% perfect why are they going out why are they needing to go out with their friends why can't they just go out with me what kit it's just this never-ending spiral they can kind of get you out of control and so you you have to stop this wall you know you're ahead you can't let this kind of take over your relationship so this is why I want to reduce five different signs that you're kind of doing this that you're putting your partner on that pedestal so let's start number one you believe that they're going to change or they're going to fix you right you believe that they complete you and this is a big one because again we're talking about your insecurities here we're talking about your own self-worth here and if you think this you're basically saying I'm not good enough just by myself but when I have them I'm perfect they make me perfect and you're putting a lot of pressure on them as far as to make you feel whole and complete and that's just not a way to live your life because again you you're not even focusing on yourself you're not even focusing that you're a human being that you have choices that you have decisions that you're very important you know you are all you have in the end everything else is just temporary but you are all you have and so this idea of oh they they complete me oh you know I could never ever live without them oh my gosh how could I possibly do that like it's one thing to think that because you care about them so much but it's so now the things they're like really truly believe it you can't live without them and that's just no way to to live that's no way to live a full life and there's a fantastic quote by Neil Dom Donald Welsh and he says the...

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