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Often times I have talked to a guy and although on the surface I am complimenting and supporting the guy, I am also secretly sensing some attitudes or beliefs he holds that I know will turn off the majority of women.
I boiled down those attitudes into 5 categories that women often sense about men and are like NOPE. NOT what I'm looking for. Instead of feeling discouraged by this though, I hope you will re-evaluate and perhaps realize what women are looking for, what you have to be for the majority of them, and how they WANT you to be the man you may have been scared to be.
The 5 attitudes are:
1. A FEMININE ATTITUDE
YOU want to be what the WOMAN wants to be.
But the woman has more clout in the dating market so she's gonna get to play the leading role whether you like it or not.
The woman wants you to shower HER with attention, compliments, adoration, offerings. Not the other way around. She doesn't want to give to you. She wants to receive. If she senses you want to RECEIVE too much, she will see you as "wanting to be the girl" in the relationship.
So make peace with the idea that she wants to see you wanting to be the GIVER. The father figure. The older, wiser man. And she wants to be the princess.
2. A SUBMISSIVE ATTITUDE
Do you want to be submissive in the bedroom or do you want and are you intending to lead?
She wants to be able to let go in bed with you. She wants you to be the guy in her fantasies. So she is gonna sense if you are wanting HER to be that for YOU.
Many guys do dream of a dominant woman who is confident and can take the lead....but so do most girls. I know it is very sexy for a lot of guys to imagine something like a woman who is so overcome with lust and desire for him that she is aggressively coming on to him and telling him he is a sex god she just can't get enough of. I get it. Just know that fantasy is much more so a male fantasy than a female fantasy. It is usually a turn off for the woman, since she is the aggressor and not the receiver of the attention and focus in that scenario.
So it is important for her that you be capable of leading and enjoy doing that. Man this is so huge. I see it in these women's groups all the time. The guy isn't taking the initiative, he's not making her feel desired, courted, sexy, taken. They hate that.
3. BEING TOO FEMINIST
Hey. Hopefully no girls see this video. I am feminist. Feminism is incredibly important in my opinion. But a lot of girls are not ready for a feminist guy in the bedroom. Asking for consent too bluntly sometimes with a girl who is not ready to own her sexual desires can force a girl's hand and give her no choice but to save face and refuse. It can also be a turn off for girls who are fantasizing about more old school gender roles. I see guy's making this mistake a lot and NO GIRL IS EVER GONNA TELL THEM THIS cause we all see the importance of feminism!!
4. NOT GRASPING THE POWER OF HIS MASCULINITY
I don't know how to explain this one that great. But you're a man. Women look up to you. I know they might not say they do, but they do. Women admire your natural gifts. Women are awed by the power of the testosterone coursing through your veins. Women crave the white hot dirtiness of your sexual desires.
I get that overcoming shame can be extremely hard and tricky. But you guys have way more shame then you should. You are often hot and cool (despite having a high rejection rate or having been insulted by women), but many of you don't see that...and it's unattractive. It's the same with women I'm sure who are super unconfident and put themselves down. And you're probably like, hey you're not perfect but I think you're hot and I'd totally do you don't ruin it for me. PLEASE.
5. SUCCESS
Are you a slacker or can you succeed in the real world. Women are sensing this about you. Do you have what it takes. Cause if you do, she can adore and respect you and be the adoring women she wants to be deep down.
6. REACTIVITY
Are u gonna snap on her with some resentment and bitterness towards women? She is searching and sensing for your ability to be safe.
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