When does it get to be you whose in charge of your life? When does it get to be you who is responsible for where you are in life? When does it get to be you who is accountable for your decisions? When does it get to be you? When does it get to be you who takes ownership?
Victim mentality allows you to never be responsible because everything just happens to you. You are never the cause, you are never the cause and so you can never be responsible. This mentality helps people to never rely on you, always second guess you and not trust you.
When you are always the victim its never going to be you. Its never going to be you who learns the lessons, its never going to be you who has to self corrects, its never going to be you who is responsible. And so it never get to be you who grows, evolves and leads
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