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00:00 Intro
01:21 Surfshark ad
02:35 Definition of "soft life"
05:25 How influencers corrupted "soft life"
08:56 How they keep the "soft life" grift going
11:11 Final thoughts

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References used while I drag the #selfcare #softlife #femininity frauds:

“Black women started living the soft life. Then came quiet quitting.” by Jennimai Nguyen for Mashable - [ Ссылка ]

“'Soft Girl': The radical trend millennials love” by Evie Muir for BBC’s The Collection - [ Ссылка ]

Real Self-Care: A Transformative Program for Redefining Wellness (Crystals, Cleanses, and Bubble Baths Not Included) by Pooja Lakshmin
at Bookshop - [ Ссылка ]
at Target - [ Ссылка ]
at Alibris - [ Ссылка ]
and at *that place* (which I boycott, but most of y’all still shop there so it’s above me now) - [ Ссылка ]

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Top - [ Ссылка ]
or if you’re in the UK - [ Ссылка ]

Nose ring - [ Ссылка ]

Smoke quartz ring is from Wicked Heathens (sold out)

Fingertip and midi rings are by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - [ Ссылка ]

Other ring is from a brand I can’t recommend. Bad customer service.

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Makeup tings:

Rituel de Fille Color Nectar Pigment Balm
Ulta - [ Ссылка ]
Free People - [ Ссылка ]
Saks - [ Ссылка ]

e.l.f. Halo Glow Liquid Filter
direct from e.l.f. - [ Ссылка ]
Target - [ Ссылка ]
Ulta - [ Ссылка ]
Beauty Bay - [ Ссылка ]

Surratt Surreal Skin - [ Ссылка ]

Eye is Surratt Smokey Eye Baton - [ Ссылка ]

Lashes are by Kiss - [ Ссылка ]

Lip is Fenty Beauty Stunna Lip Paint Longwear Fluid Lip Color, “Unveil”
from Fenty - [ Ссылка ]
Sephora - [ Ссылка ]
Ulta - [ Ссылка ]

*with* Tarte Maracuja Juicy Lip Plump, Tulip
Sephora - [ Ссылка ]
Ulta - [ Ссылка ]

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Camera - [ Ссылка ]
Editing software is Adobe Premiere.

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