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This week I am answering questions that YOU have placed in the comments section of my videos!! For those that would like their question answered - please let me know in the comments below.

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The third question is under the video that I put up recently regarding enmeshment:
Question: "'I'm just curious, what causes adults to not leave the parents control - emotionally and verbally abusive parents - that make the son take the place of the absent father? I've seen shaming when the person wants privacy or independence - they see their family as one with no seperation?"

Ok - why don't adult children of narcissists leave when their parents are enmeshed with them? Two reasons (and this is not an all inclusive list) one has to do with conditioning & learned helplessness. This goes way back to childhood-whenever that you're referring to was a child - and he tried to be separate from his family he was no doubt met with anger, abandonment, emotional abandonment, punishment, things that were extremely intense for a child. Done over a long period of time that child is then conditioned and learns that being separate isn't safe. Separateness means punishment/danger so that breeds learned helplessness.

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