How To Have A Hard Conversation With Your Partner
How do you have a hard conversation with your partner or spouse without being triggered, arguing, getting defensive, or causing more disconnection? The first two to three sentences of a hard conversation with our partner often determine the outcome. In this video I share the concept of “gentle startup” that I learned from John Gottman’s marriage training and research. Learn how to use “gentle startup” to have difficult conversations mindfully with your partner and to create even more connection and intimacy through hard conversations. What once created disconnection and resentment, instead creates an opportunity for deeper love and intimacy through strengthening your ability to learn how to have a hard conversation with your partner.
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How to Have a Hard Conversation with Your Partner
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