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In this video, I'm gonna show you the three things that make woman lose respect and lose attraction for the man they may be dating.

Now you can also rearrange these words to be feminine, masculine, for men and woman, because it could be like that in whatever type of relationship there is.

Now, here is the key and here is the number one thing that kills all attraction across the board in any relationship no matter the dynamic, the number one thing, and the first thing I'm gonna share with you is that of neediness.

Needy energy repels. Needy energy causes people to lose respect. Needy energy is literally the opposite of magnetic energy.

Now needy energy is something that sometimes when you're dating someone, you may start to emit once you start to feel uncertain with whether they still like you or not, if you start feeling uncertain in your future with this person you may start to have more needy type behaviors.

And the most important thing to understand about this is that the energy you feel about you is being projected out and other people can feel that.

When there's an energy of neediness, normally what is happening is there is a dependence on something outside of your own energy field that you are trying to manipulate or control to meet your own needs.

Now, this is why when you see people that have that needy energy, it is like they want something from you. They want your validation. They want your approval. And what they believe is they believe that if they are needy, if they put out that energy, they will actually get what they want.

Now it seems logical, right, that needy energy doesn't really work, but in the mind, the way that it is is there's a feeling inside that says, "I don't feel good enough. I want this person's validation or approval.

And if I act this way, then I'm going to get my needs met. I'm gonna get what I want: their validation, approval, them to stick around."

Something that sometimes people do is they start feeling like somebody's pulling back 'cause they may actually say, "Hey, you're pulling back and it's really, this is something that you're pulling back.

Why are you doing this? Why are you gonna go hang out with your friends? Why are you gonna go doing this?"

And there is something to be said, though, about vulnerability, because I believe when you could be vulnerable and actually express something that you're maybe afraid of hiding, 'cause a lot of times people feel needy and they're very afraid of showing any level of neediness, even though they might feel it.

And the cure to neediness many times is vulnerability, is actually expressing the real you. It's expressing how you really feel, how you really think. I remember a lot in one of my prior relationships, I was kind of dancing around that feeling of neediness.

And I was in a way in this pattern where I was choosing people that emotionally and were not choosing me and what I was doing is I was making it okay that I was in relationships with people that weren't choosing me because I felt like that's what I deserved.

But it was really also avoiding me asking people to kind of like choose, if that makes sense. I literally, eventually once I started facing this neediness and I started realizing where it was coming from, I started to actually express my real heart.

I actually started to say, "You know what, actually, this is what I want, and if this isn't gonna be the energy that is met, then I'm going to go do this instead." And I had to actually have the courage to do that.

So sometimes what I wanna say is if there's that needy energy there, realize that you might be settling in a way as well for people that maybe aren't choosing you because deep down you're not choosing yourself.

You don't believe that you're worthy of somebody that chooses you. You may feel familiar to choose someone that's not choosing you, so then needy energy is activated.

Also a lot of times this will also be indicative of a anxious or avoidant attachment style. So it's normally the anxious that's the one that's feeling needy and it's because there's the deep down issue or the core issue of the childhood wounding, is the inner child wound of abandonment.

There's a belief that says, "People don't stay. I'm not worthy. People are going to leave me." And in order to mitigate that, people try to be needy. They try to get their own needs met.

And in a way, they're putting these unrealistic demands on outer reality. They want the person they're dating to meet their own inner childhood needs that weren't met when they were kids.

But the abandonment wound comes because a lot of times what we've done is we've abandoned ourselves and we've then tried to make everybody else happy. The cure is to stop abandoning yourself and to start being vulnerable, start expressing the real you.

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