In this video, I want to help you understand what are the most important steps as you prepare yourself for divorce and they set the stage for the next scene in this drama.

And I want to help you to understand that you know more than you think you know and why this is so important.

Understanding the process is helpful but understand where you are in the journey and what to expect is crucial.

Emotional Abuse | the gift that keeps on giving

You thought the hardest part was over; you had left or you were #discarded, you were starting to get your life back together and you are faced with #divorce.

The #wounds you thought were healed weren't quite, and because they know you so well they can open them up so easily!

And this is why it is so important to be emotionally fit when you go through this process.

Being Emotionally fit is like wearing a Teflon Suit.

At the end of a relationship, I started to discover a new language which included #Narcissists #Sociopaths #Pyschopaths and some many new words such as #scapegoating #walkingoneggshells #traumabonding #gaslighting. But the very first thing I needed to do was untangle from the Trauma Bonds before I could move on, these invisible bonds were keeping me trapped and I wasn't able to get the closure I needed to move on, and if you are at the start of this journey you will soon discover that closure isn't something you will get from you abuser, that is part of their game.

Emotionally Divorce First
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🎮 In fact, you will also discover this relationship was a game to them, they play with you and your emotions for their own benefit, initially believing you will complete them, fill the going whole that makes them feel empty but later when they have taken everything from you they see what more damage they can do…

⁇ This journey you are on will answer so many questions and you will be able to heal on a level you would never believe possible and move on to lead an incredible life!

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