* When John Gottman began researching marriage in the early 1970s, there was little scientific data on the factors that make it work.
* Counsellors depended on conventional wisdom, opinion, intuition, religious beliefs or the ideas of psychologists.
* The result? Not much effectiveness. Using quantitative research based on direct observation of couples, Gottman identified consistent patterns in what causes marriages to fail – and, more importantly, patterns that enable them to succeed.
* The good news: you don’t have to agree on everything, you don’t have to change who you are and you don’t need to change them.
* If you value your marriage, and are willing to commit to it, there is no reason why you can’t save it.

Theme 1: Let Go of the Myths - 0:27
Theme 2: Nurture the Friendship and How to Deal with Conflict - 11:50
Theme 3: Most Marriages Can be Saved - 24:05

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Full Title: The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
Year of Publication: 1999
Book Author: John M Gottman & Nan Silver

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