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NEPTUNE IN THE 7TH HOUSE / Pisces ruling the 7th house / Venus in the 12th house
There is an innocence with Neptune in the 7th house when it comes to relationships due to several things that might have happened in your childhood days leading you to trust easily. Yes, Neptune in the 7th house have a good and kind heart and can be very generous to others, and Neptune in the 7th house subconsciously believe that others are the same; that people are good-natured, that everyone has a good heart even though they may appear otherwise. You believe that people are innately kind and good.
But the danger of this belief is that …
1. Neptune in the 7th house can easily project these ideals onto a partner, to the point where you hope that they would fill an emptiness in your life. You can admire your partner’s lifestyle, looks, personality, career based on the fact THAT YOU innocently believe everyone is good…whether they ARE good or not. This admiration causes you to easily lose yourself and your identity in your partner’s seemingly ‘perfect’ identity.
2. Second danger is that … logically speaking…if Neptune in the 7th house already have it in your heart to believe that your partner is ‘perfect’…then there’s no need to create REAL emotional intimacy. Because this can only be achieved through hardships, through seeing the dark side of someone and learning to emotionally adjust and cope with it. And with no such emotional intimacy….what’s the foundation of the relationship? A strong foundation is built through TIME, through DEPTH, through INTIMACY. And without a strong relationship foundation….you can leave a relationship in the blink of eye, when things start getting real tough. OR…you can stay in the same relationship for years without the awareness of each other’s emotional needs, repeating the same unhealthy patterns, whatever those patterns might be.
3. Third danger….is that…without any awareness of friction in relationships which is supposed to lead us to growth, Neptune in the 7th house can become passive and remain single for an extended period of time. You can stay in your comfort zone of being alone.
Now there are a number of situations that can occur which will cause the Neptune in the 7th house person to lose this naivety, and all of them will kind of jerk you back to the reality of relationships in this time and space dimension. Now it’s REALLY important to pay attention to these situations when they happen in your life so that you DON’T RESIST but instead accept and grow from them.
Believing that everyone is innately good leads to lack of discrimination between good intentions and behavior and bad ones. I’m not saying there’s only good and bad, or black and white but it’s a spectrum right, and this spectrum still requires discrimination. Without it, you can get into QUICK INVOLVEMENTS with people which will jerk Neptune in the 7th house back to reality in a number of different ways;
1. The first…is that once the going gets tough, either Neptune in the 7th house or your partner…may ‘disappear’ and end the bond without much explanation or closure. And it’s going to feel pretty much like ‘I just have the urge to end things with this person, I don’t really know why, (my logic is foggy) but I just fell out of love with this person.’ The truth is that, if Neptune in the 7th house don’t build a house with good columns and pillars and walls and roof, it will be quick to build definitely, but one storm can tear it down in a couple hours.
2. Second is that… with quick involvements and no real emotional intimacy, Neptune in the 7th house may feel an underlying loneliness which leads you to look around for someone else who you believe can fill that void that your partner can’t. Hence, promiscuity.
Both these situations make the Neptune in the 7th house individual feel emotionally wounded and highly disappointed in themselves and others. Neptune in the 7th house had gone in hoping for a one true love, but came out with many not real loves.
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NEPTUNE IN THE 7TH HOUSE / Pisces ruling the 7th house / Venus in the 12th house
