First and foremost, I don’t care how much love you have to give no one should receive it before you! It’s sickening that us humans will make loving our self hard but pour it out to others in hopes that they will pour back into us!! It’s a cheap shot, a low vibration, it’s an excuse to not look in the mirror and fix YOU!
And now you gave it all out - at this point you don’t even know yourself -cause you have given it all away in hopes of a return! Now you’re empty and needing VALIDATION.. In reality you never had to be here in the first place!! Two things I’ve learned going through this is:
1. This behavior comes from not feeling like you DESERVE THE BEST.. so you give it to someone else ‼️
2. It’s a behavior of LAZINESS- you want someone to do your job for you!! (NO one can take on this TASK BUT YOU!!
If this relates with you and you’re still displaying this behavior it’s never too late to take back your control and validate you! Trust me it’s gonna feel so good..
#humannature
#sadness
#selflove
#motivationalspeaker
#depression
#validation
#discipline
