Kaidan "comes out" to Shepard by saying he wants "someone handsome". This line is only available if you created a new male Shepard for Mass Effect 3.
In case you imported your male Shepard from Mass Effect 2 and Mass Effect 1 before that, Kaidan will recall that you've known each other for a very long time and he hasn't been with anyone during that time.
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