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In my videos, I like to talk about Psychology, Healing Attachment Trauma, Relationship Repair, Inner Child Self-Re-Parenting, Love Addiction, Codependency, Grieving Break Ups, Family Programming, Fantasy Relationships, The Romantic Narrative, Primal Panic, Trauma Bonding, Double-Binds, Attachment Styles, Couples Counseling, Better Boundaries, Shame and Self-love, CPTSD Breakthroughs, Emotional Availability, and Body-Focused Psychotherapy for Healing Trauma..

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Alan Robarge, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor,
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Trauma Bonding Through Shame / Family & Partner Relationships / Attachment Trauma / Alan Robarge

In this video, I talk about how shame gets interwoven into our attachment bonds, making internalized shame the conduit for loving our parents or partner. It becomes the common "language" for relating.

Therefore, letting go of shame (the common language" is increasingly difficult but we don't know how to relate to others. Saying goodbye to shame becomes akin to saying goodbye to the parent, because we only know the parent through the shame-bond. When this happens, we are relating through the shame. This shame-bond is what is also known as a trauma-bond.

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