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Six Factors:

Satisfaction
Scarcity
Fear of Loss
Urgency
Investment
Alternatives

Two Categories:

The Factors That Affect His Reasoning
The Factors That Affect His Desire To Commit

The Factors That Affect His Reasoning:

Satisfaction: in this context refers to how satisfied your guy is with your interactions. So, if every time you are together and he has the time of his life his satisfaction is bound to be high. However, if every time the two of you hang out and he grows bored of your interactions then his satisfaction will be low.
Scarcity: is often mistaken for not being too available. And, while availability is important, Scarcity actually pertains to how your guy sees you. He needs to be of the opinion that there is no one else out there like you.
Fear of Loss: is important, because if your guy values your interactions then he won't want to let that, or you, go. However, even if he values you, if he feels like you are going to wait around for him no matter what he does, then there is no Fear of Loss. You get my drift?

The Factors That Affect His Desire To Commit:

Urgency: is a concept taken from marketing. Think about a the last time you felt like you had to buy something RIGHT NOW. Urgency in dating is the same thing. it is the feeling that if you don't ACT NOW the moment or opportunity might pass you by. It's a factor that you don't want to give into on your end but you want your man to feel heavily on his end.
Investment: is anything he puts into the interactions; money, time, emotion, and even energy. There have actually been studies that prove that even people unsatisfied with the Relationship they are in, will stay in a Relationship if they feel like they have some kind of stake in it. However, this aspect has to be balanced out by the other five aspects. Otherwise, they will feel as if all they do is give and they don't get anything out of it.
Alternatives: are how he sees you compared to other women. Now, I'm not saying that you should start comparing yourself to other women. But, in his eyes, you should appear to be the only option he sees.

The Synergy Between All Six Factors
How To Work To Make Him Want To Commit To You

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