n this episode of What's Underneath, Shan Boodram, intimacy expert and host of Lovers and Friends podcast, and Jared Brady, recording artist and host of Enjoy the Podcast, get radically honest about making their own relationship rules and open up about:
⭐️ how the underlying respect and honesty from their initial relationship as f*ck buddies allowed for them to evolve into a multifaceted, mental and emotional connection as parents and life partners
⭐️ how Shan went from a fear-based, ‘one foot out the door’ attitude during fights with Jared to dropping her defenses and taking the risk to live in the vulnerability that is a long-term commitment
⭐️ how they reject the expectation that being non-monogamous means you always have multiple sexual partners, choosing instead to nurture their own connection during pregnancy while keeping the future open for new desires and possibilities
⭐️ how they are both accepting their fluctuating romantic and sexual desires during pregnancy, with Shan embracing hormonal changes to her body and libido by acknowledging the temporary nature of this season in their lives
⭐️ and SO. MUCH. MORE!!
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