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In this video, I'm gonna show you the red flag signs that you may be dating a narcissist. These are red flags that you can look for.

Sometimes people misconstrue red flags for red roses, but that's why awareness is so damn powerful. So with this, there are certain things that when you become aware of, can completely transform your life.

I know that back in the day I would date, I would either date people that had narcissistic tendencies or I would attract narcissists into my life in the form of, like, managers, people that I would just, like, believe that I had to have in my life.

I tell myself a story that I had to have them in my life or that I owed them something. And eventually I was able to break that pattern. And when you break the pattern, it's a completely new world, and you can actually start letting people into your life that really resonate with you at a deep level.

Now, the first red flags sign is actually kind of funny. It is something that my girlfriend said that she experienced with one of her ex-boyfriends or someone she dated for a period of time. And basically what she said happened is, it's kind of funny (laughs)

So the first red flag is a constant need for approval and for validation and for the attention to be on them.

Okay, so my girlfriend had this experience with a guy that she dated where she went on vacation with him and they were in this, like, beach like environment and they were with some friends as well staying at this house.

And she woke up one morning and he gets up, this guy, and he stretches like this and then he goes out into that of, like, the living room area where all of his friends were, everyone else was already up, and when he went out, he said, "Ah, just got done doing like an hour of yoga," of, like, Kundalini yoga or something like that.

He said that he just got done doing an hour of yoga and said that everyone else was there. And my girlfriend was thinking, "What the hell? He literally got up, took a shit, and then walked outside and said that he did like an hour of yoga."

And it was one of the first red flags for my girlfriend. I was like, "Wait, there's something this guy is putting out there, wanting people to believe about him that is actually, like, bullshit, not even true."

And this is something that is a common trait of people that are trying to get their needs met because maybe they believe they want the validation and the approval, but they don't feel like they have it, so they'll do anything, they'll go to extreme measures in order to get their needs met.

I've met a few other people as well that have this kind of tendency that, I had a roommate actually that would lie about everything.

For a period, like, literally when I lived with this guy, it was like he'd lie about everything, and it was stuff that I think he thought I would think was cool, but I just knew immediately because I'm so empathic and shit and I had a ex-stepmom that was a narcissist.

I could just immediately tune and be like, "Oh, this is bullshit, this is bullshit, this is bullshit, this is bullshit."

And after a period of time I was like, "I can't be around this anymore. It's too much bullshit for me." I didn't feel, like, safe to even be around this person because I'm like, "Whoa, this is like so far off from what I could feel is actually reality."

Then I would find things that catch those lies and stuff like that. So it's interesting. However, that constant need for approval and the constant need for attention is something that very common can happen if you are in a relationship with somebody that is a narcissist.

Because if you look at this little thing right here, it kind of explains that of narcissism in an unhealthy way on this side. So you have where it says self. This is where they want all the energy on me, me, me, me.

And a lot of times narcissists do have a strong frame, a strong frame, meaning like this is my sense of reality, even though my sense of reality is, like, I need all these things from the external environment.

They have this energy going towards them. Whereas many people that attract narcissists in their life, they tend to be more empathic people or people that focus more on others.

So narcissist focus to the extreme level on self, empaths focus on other and they feel everyone else's energy. So the thing to become aware of with this is in a weird twisted way, there is something to learn from the narcissist.

Now, the narcissist is an unhealthy expression of the me energy, but at the same time, narcissists are normally in either in their own frame and they demand everyone else, like, adheres to it, whereas the empath and the people that are always focused on other are in their own frame.

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