EBTV with host Evita Ochel and returning guest Tom Campbell in a dialogue about the nature of love, what it really means, and how to apply it.
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Topics covered in the video include:
1. An explanation of love from an MBT / LCS perspective. (2:25)
- difference between love vs. need
- understanding unconditional love
- how to optimize or destroy the simulation system
- the destructive potential of grouping together
- how fear relates to love
- fear-based tendencies (13:39)
- love-based tendencies (15:05)
- qualities of a love-based life (18:35)
- qualities of a fear-based life (18:57)
- being love vs. acting out love
2. The energy signature and frequency of love in a simulation. (25:29)
- what is Ego and its role in love and fear
- how beliefs sabotage new insight
- fear creates Ego and beliefs
- how to identify Ego
- the 5-step process for becoming love
- the antidote to fear
- the role of observation
- the struggles we face as humans: “a struggle of fear and ignorance, against love and understanding.”
3. Is love a building block or by-product of the simulation? (44:00)
- an explanation of information and entropy
- how to maintain low entropy
- the fundamental nature of love
- how the system allows us to grow into love (51:56)
- the importance of choices in the process of growing up
- what is the most important thing to do to save the world (56:08)
4. Does living based on “other” instead of “self” allow people nearest to us to treat us “poorly” and should we still love them for doing so? (58:23)
- seek low entropy choices for the system as a whole
- abusive relationships = high entropy situations
- being a person of love = more power
- how being a pacifist ties in
- the challenge of practicing discernment (1:13:13)
- morality and the importance of intent in making the right choice
- the importance of taking action even if we are not sure if it is the right choice
- applications to romantic partnerships; will males get walked all over if they are loving (1:21:44)
5. How to deal with opposing views, especially regarding current politics. (1:24:14)
- strategies for handling difficult or negative topics
- letting go of Ego, fear and beliefs
- we need to deal with what is; how we deal with it is what matters
