The more I understand cults and how oppressive systems work, the more I understand myself and how I cut myself off from myself. I’m gonna have author, Daniella Mestyanek Young, on my live on Patreon on July 21st at 4pm EST, so if you have any questions about this or any requests, let me know on Patreon what you want me to ask her. Or join the top two tiers to be there yourself and see it. I cannot stop thinking about how much patriarchy is built into everything I do. All these systems are. And how the cool girl and the pick me are trauma responses to try to not be abandoned . To be loved and accepted is so natural and yet these powerful people, usually white men, use our need to be loved and accepted to further enforce our own disassociation from our bodies, our hearts, ourselves. We don’t even know who we are until we start to question the systems and the way god and spirituality and religion have been used to get us to fall in line. We do what we have to to survive patriarchy but at what cost? To lose ourselves or never even find ourselves. Is that really better than death? I don’t think it is . Anwyho, I can’t wait for the live! I hope you will join us or watch later when I learn how to edit on this app lol
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