Do you ever wonder if you're the problem in a relationship when you know that the other person is forever pushing your buttons, blaming and shaming you? You may be suffering from "Reactive Abuse," and that's a cycle that you can put a stop to. Learn more now.
HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:
- What is Reactive Abuse
- How does reactive abuse come into play
- Why you feel so badly about yourself when reactive abuse plays out
- What you may mistakenly do that doesn't help at all in the face of reactive abuse
- When you snap, lose it, and tell it like it is and the tables get turned on you
- What to do to reframe from Reactive Abuse
You are patient. You give the benefit of the doubt. You take the blame. You apologize when you have done nothing wrong.
Any of those sound familiar? Do you do them too often? Do you find yourself on the apologizing, even begging, end of abuse? Well, when you engage in Reactive Abuse, it can get totally crazy-making. It's really hard to tell which end is up once that cycle revs up. And, that's definitely NOT a good thing!
* * Remember, narcissists and other toxic people come in all genders and ages * *
and toxic relationships can be at home, at work, at play... with your parent, boss, spouse, sibling, friend, co-worker.
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I am Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor.
Are you in relationship with a Hijackal? That's someone who consistently puts you down, love-bombs and gaslights you, creates confusion and chaos, and causes you to second-guess yourself? I can help you recognize, understand, and make decisions about those kinds of narcissistic behavior…and especially, how to keep yourself (and your children) safe and sane.
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