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Breach of boundaries, annexation and appropriation, objectification

Appeasement or rebellion strategies (wrath of the gods vs. apotheosis: codependent people-pleasing vs. antisocial narcissism)

Splitting (child all bad, mommy all good), never integration

Projection is always projective identification

(because parents perceived as infallible: child identify with parts that a parent placed on them, well into adulthood)

Social isolation +Self-referential isolation (negative bad object or inflated, impossible ideal ego that transforms into bad object)= impaired reality testing

Obstructed separation-individuation via ambient emotional blackmail or emotional incest

Sibling hierarchies and competition

Cult vs. Others (they are wrong, they are enemies, they will never understand, they are evil, we must protect our secrets)

Instrumentalizing leads to adulation but unrealistic expectations and coercive snapshotting

Parentifying: I am never good enough, I am responsible for other people’s welfare

Immaturity, regressive infantilism, imaginary friends, paracosm, fantasy as defense and shared

Ego failure (no integrated or constellated self, just fragments)

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