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Often times people in relationships can find it uncomfortable initiating sex with their significant other when trying to increase the intimacy in your relationship.

And the longer you are in a relationship, the higher chance you have of getting lazy at initiating intimate time.

It's not uncommon where people in relationships will realize a certain amount of time has passed in between sexual episodes and will say "Hey, it's been a while. We should do it."

That type of a comment is not very sexy or passionate, and it's important to keep the sexual tension strong while feeling comfortable doing so.

There are many ways to initiate sex with your significant other that will be inviting, but not embarrassing.

Obviously, everyone's comfort levels are different, so it's important to choose an action that you know you can handle, and will be effective.

No matter what, when it comes to initiation, it is important to make your other half feel special. Here are some tips on how to bring more excitement into the initiation process without needing to ask directly:

1. Compliment

"Your muscles look so hot in that shirt" or "I love how amazing your butt looks in that dress" or "I just want to kiss all over you when you smell like that".

Just giving a specific, yet simple compliment is a very effective way to initiate, and explain what is making you initiate in that exact moment.

2. Stroll Down Memory Lane Together

Many times when bringing up a conversation about very hot, intimate moments together can often put both people in the mood.

Where were you, what were you wearing, what made the time so memorable? This is fun to talk about as a couple and stroll down memory lane together.

Often times just thinking about past sexual experiences can make a couple want to experience it again.

3. Tease

Often times an anticipation of sex is a great way to initiate without have to say anything.

A common and effective example would be to send your partner a sexy picture of you showing some skin with a caption that says "I can't wait to see you tonight".

This helps get you both excited for later and in the mood.

And if you both are together in the same room, sometimes giving a sensual kiss while feeling on their body, and then walking away can be a great way to tease your other half.

4. Give a signal

Initiating sex does not have to be scary or awkward. Many couples have small signals they give to each other to tell their partner they are in the mood for some sexy time.

Some couples put a candle on their nightstand, and whenever you are in the mood to do it, you light the candle.

Sometimes wearing a certain item of clothing can be a signal to your partner that you are horny and want to have sex.

Sometimes couples will send a text to each other (an emoji or a code word), and if both people send the same code word, then that means they have a date for sexy time when they get home.

Being too forward can often times feel vulnerable and awkward, so these tips are intended to show your partner that you want to initiate sex without being too overt about it while minimizing the feeling of rejection if your partner is not in the mood.

It is important to share the responsibility of initiation and step out of your comfort zone once in a while.

This will create more opportunities for passion and intimacy in the relationship, so make sure you put in effort as much as possible.

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