How do you reconcile being a feminist with enjoying being dominating? Lots of women who enjoy taking control in their daily lives, prefer to do the complete opposite in the bedroom. It’s a way to turn off our brain, give into pleasure without having to think about anything. Being a man who enjoys dominating isn’t necessarily about being rough, cruel or mean - in fact, there’s a huge amount of self-care involved and respecting and understanding boundaries. It takes a confident, creative man to know how to be dominant but it can start by simply asking your partner to go into the bedroom and remove her clothes, or to get ready in some other way. People often think of the sub/dom relationship as super kinky but it’s often about setting the scene and the ‘dom’ stating their desire in a commanding way that turns up the heat and the passion.

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