I wrote my MSc dissertation at Oxford on infidelity, and while some lucky people never get cheated on, others get cheated on in every relationship they’re in. One longitudinal study found that if you got cheated on in your last relationship, you’re twice as likely to get cheated on in your next relationship. Why? Well, I’m speculating, but in my mind, two things could be going on here: First, it could be their behavior; maybe these people aren’t as good at mate-retention, maybe they tend to stop putting in an effort as relationships go long. Alternatively, and this is my best guess, is that people who get cheated on repeatedly might just be attracted to traits that covary with infidelity. For example, maybe you find narcissism attractive, as many people do. If that's you, well, narcissism predicts infidelity! And so your odds of getting cheated on will be higher. #shorts#cheating#narcissist#cheatingboyfriend#cheatinggirlfriend#dating#datingadvice#love#romance#psychology#psychologyfacts#science#facts

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