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Today's video is the first in a 3-part series on the experience of shame in narcissistic abuse. First, shame as an emotion is defined. It's a universal experience and can actually serve some important functions for us. Next, shame in its more destructive form is discussed as a rupture in the connection between the self and another where the self was expecting to find connection but instead finds judgment and the absence of any connection. Third, the specific features of shame are discussed in this context with attention paid to how it dampens our other emotions to make the rupture feel more survivable. In subsequent videos, I will discuss how shame can show up in our day to day experience then offer strategies for intervening with it so that it can be lived alongside rather than in opposition to.
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Bret Lyons & Sheila Rubin
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The role of shame in surviving narcissistic abuse
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