One of the biggest traps people fall into with their partners is the blame game.
You see the things your partner's doing "wrong" and try to get them to stop, so you can feel better.
This is normal and completely understandable!
But it's also a losing strategy in love.
If you want a truly intimate relationship, that means taking responsibility for your feelings, actions, mental states, and life.
Waiting for a partner to act differently usually leads to power struggles and conflict about who's right...
And you don't have time or energy to waste on that type of interaction.
Instead, start using the discomfort as a way to look at yourself.
Let your relationship struggles support your personal development.
One of my favorite ideas from nondual Tantric philosophy is using EVERYTHING for spiritual growth.
In that tradition, life's painful and pleasurable aspects are equally important.
But painful emotions are your best teachers!
You stop suffering when you learn to use hardship rather than avoid it.
If you want to use the challenges of your relationship to create more intimacy for yourself and your life, watch today's video.
I'll walk you through simple questions you can ask yourself to stop the blame game and start your personal development journey.
XO,
Jami Lynn
#PracticeIntimacy
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relationship advice | love advice for women | dating advice for women | intimacy issues
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