How Do You Be A Knight In Shining Armor To An Independent Queen? @Goodmenproject @AllanaPratt
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"My wife won't let me do anything for her, yet she wants a Knight in Shining Armor!" Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt knows how to shift that...

Awaken you badass nobility

Question: How can you be a Knight In Shining Armor to an extremely independent woman? My wife won’t let me do anything for her but she wants me to romantic? How do I swing that?

Answer: I love your desire to be her Knight In Shining Armor. And I love her independence. You wouldn't want a needy woman that takes you for granted or is a gold digger, yes? And yet not letting you do anything for her while complaining that you're not stepping up is frustrating, yes?

A lot of women have grown into self sufficient creatures who don't need you... which initially makes you feel appreciated and not taken advantage of... yes? And yet sometimes this independence doesn't make room for you to win... yes?

For a woman to surrender, let go of control, let you take over the reigns when she's found her security, safety and identity in doing it all herself... it's honestly a little scary to trust you'll have our back, that we won't fall if we let go, that you'll show up if we don't. Ok, a LOT scary sometimes.

I don't know her past or your relationship past, yet I bet someone let her down at some point... or she watched her mom be let down in the past... and she became independent so she wouldn't have to risk being abandoned or used. Very similar when men have experienced rejection they don't want to risk that again. Who would, yes?

What's required here is a conversation about a month of Knight in Shining Armor Training... and her job is to let you win. That way as you navigate the month you have the foundation of being a work in progress...and we're not going for perfection, we're going for growth and appreciation of steps in the right direction. Be aware she may come up against emotions when she lets go, tears, fears etc. Don't fix them. Just be even more grounded, centered and there for her as she lets go... and you step up. Notice you may bump up against emotions like fear of rejection if you 'shine right as a Knight' and to be gentle and patient with your process, too.

Know that it's GREAT to get this handled now before her comments get emasculating or you withdraw your attention from her... and know that growth is messy and that normal and to be expected.

A good complementary read for you would be my www.GetHerToSayYes.com report and it might be wise to read together so you can use it as a tool for what's working in your masculine feminine dynamic, and where there's room for improvement.

I'd completely recommend doing a series of 6 sessions with me, some together and some individual because what it takes for her to surrender and what it takes for you to show up may come with some baggage best handled on your own... and as you learn to rest into one another, trust each other more deeply, connect more intimately, healthy communication and kind presence will be so beneficial. How you navigate this challenge will set the stage of how all challenges are navigated and you'll get a huge return on your investment for ease, connection and deeper romance in the future. Contact my Manager@AllanaPratt.com Subj: GMP sent me (I'm the Knight ;-)

Let's allow this bump in the road to catapult you into the best year of your marriage yet... and the best YOU you can be, where you look back grateful that you leaned into the discomfort, grew and became your fullest noble badass. Huge love, Allana xoox
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