Wives submit to your husband is a misunderstood biblical teaching Men often wrongly use it to try to control their wives in the marriage situation. A proper understanding that God holds man responsible for the things of God will help us to understand that the woman is free to choose and make choices as long as that doesn’t go against God himself. When the man submits to the woman as it pertains to the things that go against God ,this is sin.

One of the curses from the fall is that of Genesis 3:16 Where God tells the woman that her desires shall be contrary to your husband but he shall rule over her. The exact verse is used in the next chapter when God is talking to Cain ; If you do well will you not be accepted? And if you do not do well Sin is Crouching at the door. its desire is contrary to you but you must rule over it.!
The same versus used almost the exact same way in chapters 3 and four. God is telling us that when we listen to the voice of anything that takes us away from him it is sin. He can even come in the form of The Voice of your own wife or children. We are always to listen to God first when it comes to the things of God. I believe that people are free to choose whatever they want to as long as it doesn’t violate this command. I am in

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