What I discovered is that marriage and this is not the only thing I discovered obviously, but this is really important. Marriage, think of it as a vehicle that takes you to a place of incredible happiness and very fulfilling love, that's what it is. But if you don't know how to drive that vehicle it's no different than if you got into a car and you didn't have any idea of how to drive it but you've seen so many people driving and you figured you could do it too. Well, you may figure out how to start it. In the case of marriage, you say, "You want to get married?" She goes, "Yeah." You go get a license. You plan for the wedding. You get totally distracted. You have o idea about how to run your marriage. There was this video many years ago. You could probably look it up nothing leaves the internet, where this kid gets a high-performance automobile from his father. I think it was a Maserati and he was filming him driving it and within, I don't know totally totaled it out. And that's what people do in their marriages and that's what you have done. So, why do you want to leave your wife? She's not a pedophile. She's not cutting things off in the middle of the night. She's not dangerous but you have treated her in a way that causes her to treat you in a way that has created misery for both of you. You can turn it around. All you need to do is learn how to be married.


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